Becoming a parent changes everything. Many parents speak of a love for their children that they never knew existed before. But having a child can also affect the relationship between parents, sometimes in unexpected ways.
Recently, Reddit user Puzzleheaded_No3393 shared how having a baby caused problems in his marriage. His story revealed all the struggles and regrets he faced after having a child with his wife
2. At the center of this story is OP and his ex-wife’s 14-month-old son.
3. Ever since his birth, the wife has kept criticizing OP for not putting in enough effort to cater to their child.
4. OP claimed his wife’s life would be miserable without him.
5. She went quiet, but not for long, as she asked for separation, and the couple eventually got divorced.
6. The two now live separately with a 50/50 custody of the child.
7. No one was going to be able to prove neglect on the part of the other, so the two mutually settled for a 50/50 custody.
8. As soon as the post-divorce life began, OP realized he had made a terrible mistake.
9. The weeks he had his son with him, he failed miserably at managing time and life.
This is kind of absurd. He shouldn’t have had the baby if this was the way he was going to regard his relationship with his child after getting divorced. Also, he must ask his ex-wife what the true responsibility of parenting is. She managed both her husband and their child while he now only has to look after the child. This is terrible behavior!
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