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Husband Ruins His Own Marriage By Telling His Wife That Her Life Would Be Hard Without Him

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Becoming a parent changes everything. Many parents speak of a love for their children that they never knew existed before. But having a child can also affect the relationship between parents, sometimes in unexpected ways.

Recently, Reddit user Puzzleheaded_No3393 shared how having a baby caused problems in his marriage. His story revealed all the struggles and regrets he faced after having a child with his wife

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Source: Puzzleheaded_No3393

1. What did you do, sir?

2. At the center of this story is OP and his ex-wife’s 14-month-old son.

3. Ever since his birth, the wife has kept criticizing OP for not putting in enough effort to cater to their child.

4. OP claimed his wife’s life would be miserable without him.

5. She went quiet, but not for long, as she asked for separation, and the couple eventually got divorced.

6. The two now live separately with a 50/50 custody of the child.

7. No one was going to be able to prove neglect on the part of the other, so the two mutually settled for a 50/50 custody.

8. As soon as the post-divorce life began, OP realized he had made a terrible mistake.

9. The weeks he had his son with him, he failed miserably at managing time and life.

This is kind of absurd. He shouldn’t have had the baby if this was the way he was going to regard his relationship with his child after getting divorced. Also, he must ask his ex-wife what the true responsibility of parenting is. She managed both her husband and their child while he now only has to look after the child. This is terrible behavior!

Let’s see what happens next. Scroll down below to continue reading!

Source: Puzzleheaded_No3393

10. Either he could spend that time catching up with his son or doing all the due tasks at hand…which wasn’t working out well.

11. OP thought about knitting things back with his wife but she was in no mood.

12. According to her, she has been able to manage it perfectly post-divorce.

13. She says it is easier to take care of one person instead of two, a bit hit.

14. OP is stuck because if he opted for less time with his son, he would have to pay child support to his ex-wife.

15. He asked the internet why he was stuck in a situation like this.

Source: Puzzleheaded_No3393

Here are some of the comments shared on the story:

16. Why should she have to tell you what to do?

Via tnkmdm

17. He just wants to go back to being lazy.

Via Top_Detective9184

18. He really needs to grow up!

Via ghjkl098

19. He has it so much easy but he doesn’t understand it.

Via Personal_Fee_9594

20. The truth has been spoken.

Via melodykk91

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