Mother Asks If She’s Wrong For Saying That Her 3 Kids Are Not Her Greatest Accomplishment In Public

• By Abeera Anwer
• 12 months ago
• 5 minutes read

Pride comes in many forms, and what one person considers their greatest achievement might not resonate with another. People find fulfillment and accomplishment in a diverse array of experiences, from personal milestones like running a marathon, writing a novel, or earning an advanced degree, to more universally celebrated roles such as parenting. This individuality means that each person’s journey is unique, and their sense of pride is shaped by their own aspirations and values. As a result, it’s natural for people to have different perspectives on what constitutes their most significant accomplishments.

In today’s story, OP, mom of three sparked a heated discussion with her neighbors about life’s greatest accomplishments. She expressed love for her kids but clarified they weren’t her greatest achievement. When a neighbor, Tom, assumed her kids were her top accomplishment, she was shocked and refuted the claim, which led to a tense exchange. People around were shocked and even suggested that she seek help.

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1. AITA for stating that my children are not my “greatest accomplishment” and expressing resentment towards the assumption that they should be?

2. OP loves her kids, but they are not her entire world. Before motherhood, she ran marathons, climbed mountains, published a novel in the 00s, and earned an MFA in creative writing.

3. While chatting with neighbors about their greatest accomplishments, one of them pointed out that OP’s greatest achievement was obviously having three beautiful, well-behaved children.

4. OP was shocked on this assumption and replied that having children is not her greatest accomplishment. She then shared her true greatest accomplishments.

5. The neighbor mentioned how he didn’t give birth to the kids and called it a miracle of life. OP rolled her eyes and commented on how women shouldn’t be reduced to their biological functions.

6. Tom looked smug, and other moms chimed in, agreeing that their children were their greatest achievements.

7. The conversation left OP stewing, and later, one of the women who chimed in messaged her, expressing concern and suggesting OP might be depressed and needs help.

8. Now OP questions if she is truly in the wrong for believing that motherhood isn’t the pinnacle of their life.

9. OP is frustrated with receiving private messages instead of public posts and plans to ignore them.

10. A cross-post on “AmITheAngel” sparked a response clarifying her greatest accomplishments.

Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. 

11. Defining oneself solely by a biological function overlooks the actual act of raising children, which matters more.

12. Taking bets on whether those women simply echoed what they thought was expected…Odds are they missed the mark on genuine sentiment.

13. Kids aren’t trophies; they’re individuals with their own paths.

14. Both parties su*k for engaging in such a trivial and meaningless argument.

15. Tom overstepped by speaking on your behalf. If you had been able to respond yourself, the conversation might have taken a different turn.

16. Sounds like envy from neighbors who don’t grasp your full and accomplished life.

17. OP has the right to define her own greatest accomplishments and take pride in them. Her perspective is completely valid.

18. Everyone has their own priorities. For some, the greatest accomplishment is having a child and leaving a legacy. For others, it’s different achievements.

19. “I see my children as a blessing, not an accomplishment.”

20. With half the world being parents, it’s hardly a unique feat!

OP’s perspective on her greatest accomplishments sparked a significant debate, revealing the diverse ways people value and define their life achievements. While her neighbors saw motherhood as the ultimate fulfillment, she cherished her personal milestones and experiences beyond parenting. This story underscores the importance of respecting individual perspectives and recognizing that accomplishments are deeply personal and varied. Do share your thoughts on the story in the comments section below.

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