Employee Asks If She’s Wrong For Not Wanting To Babysit Her Niece After She Accidentally Flashed Her Boss

• By Arsalan Sajid
• 4 months ago
• 5 minutes read

Kids are kids, and you can’t stop them from being childish. Parents and caregivers should be prepared for unfavorable situations that may arise while carrying toddlers in their laps. Avoiding taking children to public places and wearing proper covered apparel helps reduce the risk of being flashed in public.

OP described an event in which she became embarrassed by her young niece’s conduct and chose to cease babysitting her until she grew older. OP received anger from her family for refusing to aid her sister, but she held firm in her choice. OP worked in the marines and settled in the military community. OP’s sister asked her to babysit her daughter, and as it was her and her husband’s day off, they decided to let her in. The first portion of the day went nicely. However, in the second half, they decided to travel to the beach and take her niece to the marine base beach, which was used by all marine workers’ families. Read the complete article to find out how OP reacted when her niece pulled off her blouse top with her hands, exposing her in front of her boss.

Source: Reddit

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1. OP wonders if she was an a-hole for refusing to babysit her niece anymore because she caused OP to flash her boss.

2. OP was accused of being selfish for refusing to babysit her few-month-old niece anymore since, according to her, when hungry, she grabbed her caretaker’s body part unexpectedly, causing humiliation.

3. Because OP worked in the Marines, when she had to babysit her niece, her husband took them to the Marine Base Beach, which was open to families of service members.

4. OP was walking while holding her niece when suddenly she grabbed OP’s top from her hands and pulled it down. OP got shocked as her boss and his family were there, and she was exposed in front of everyone.

5. When her sister asked to watch her daughter another time, OP declined. Her brother-in-law made a crude remark about her appearance, and her sister reprimanded OP.

6. Although OP’s sister expressed regret for her actions and pleaded with her to reconsider, OP was determined not to watch her niece until she got older.

OP was taken aback by how quickly everything transpired and how she was flashed in front of everyone. Her supervisor made fun of the situation the following day, and OP asked him to move on from it as if it had never happened. The next time her sister requested babysitting, OP declined out of embarrassment. OP’s sister had a terrible time taking her daughter along to the family supper. She criticized OP for not assisting her, and her brother-in-law said that OP shouldn’t feel ashamed because she was well-endowed and her boss was fortunate to see it. OP remained steadfast in her resolve and blocked her brother-in-law.

Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.

7. Yes, it was an accident and should be treated like one.

8. Redditor’s daughter did the same thing while her doctor was examining her, but he acted like nothing happened.

9. Indeed! People should act like nothing happened if a child did something instinctively.

10. Redditor asks OP to tell her sister about her husband’s comment on her.

11. Yes, OP’s sister family proved from their behavior why OP shouldn’t watch their kid.

12. Redditor condemns OP’s sister family for forcing her to do something she was uncomfortable with.

13. Redditor completely understands the OP’s perspective because she knows how the military can turn a minor event into a major issue for their employees.

14. Indeed! The military world is an uncivilized world with crazy rules.

15. Redditor wants OP to stay away from her brother-in-law as his comment was creepy.

16. Redditor advises the OP not to go on the beach wearing low-neck shirts with a child.

17. Redditor supports OP for deciding not to babysit again and blocking her brother-in-law for making filthy comments.

18. Redditor wants OP to refuse to babysit without giving any explanation.

19. Yes, OP’s sister should cancel her plan if the babysitter couldn’t make it instead of forcing OP to babysit.

20. Redditor had a similar situation and understands the humiliation.

OP has the freedom to refuse any work that she is not comfortable doing, and no one should push her to do it. As her sister attempted to lure her into babysitting her daughter, she may assist her but should not go outside with her niece until she was older.OP could say no to her niece, but what will happen when she has her own children? OP should wear appropriate clothing when going outside with babies, and if an accident occurs, others should act as if nothing happened. What is your view on the OP’s experience? Share your thoughts in the comments section below, and stay tuned to Wholesomeness for more tales.