People come in all shapes and sizes. We should learn to accept one another. Social media has set up very unrealistic standards of beauty for people, especially women. Photoshopped or surgically enhanced bodies are seen everywhere. So when we spot a natural and real person, it seems odd to us. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Of course, everyone has their own personal preferences. But that does not mean we should bring people down if they do not fit our description of what we find attractive.
36-year-old Olympian and retired skiing superstar Lindsey Vonn has been a victim of online body-shaming countless of times. She chooses to let her imperfections show in her photos. She is not ashamed of the normal state of her body, and that has triggered some people on the Internet.
People are always judging your imperfections, and this can really effect your self-esteem sometimes. You are very lucky if you can look in the mirror and actually like what you see. People love pointing out our flaws just to make us feel even more insecure, but even the fingers pointing at us aren’t perfect. We need to embrace our natural selves.
“Online violence is a public health issue and the effects are very detrimental. It results in physical, sexual, psychological, or economic harm, and erodes self-esteem,” says Cecilia Mwende Maundu, a specialist in gender digital safety and broadcast journalist. They suggested ways of tackling this problem. “First, we need public awareness. Even when I talk to my friends, many of them say online violence is no big deal. People need to understand this is real; that it’s real violence with real impacts. And sometimes it moves from online to offline.”
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