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Especially in a relationship if you want it to work out int eh long term. I know it sounds cliche but communication is the key to any sort of relationship. So it is better to talk something out with your partner rather than playing childish games with them. Today we have one such story where both of the parties are missing one integral part of a relationship and that is talking stuff out.
You can never know what the other person wants or is thinking without actually listening to what they are saying. But it seems many people who are married forget this and this ends up ruining their marriage in the long term. This woman however is asking for advice on the Internet whether she is doing the right thing or not.
And as you can imagine, Reddit users had varying opinions on this matter.
Source: Reddit
My ex did. He would casually ignore the baby crying (screaming because she had colic and no amount of soothing helped) and he’d “sleep” through me crying hysterically because I was so tired and severely depressed. Some men can’t be bothered to be dads during the hard stage but come around when it gets easier.
NTA OP. And notice how mine is an ex. Think hard about your relationship and consider if this skipping out on the hard times would make you resent him later in life when the kids become easier to manage.
My resentment festered from doing all the hard work alone and I eventually ended the relationship. I’ve been much better for it. I’m not saying it has to be that way for you, just something to consider because that’s lazy parenting and something unattractive in a partner. He signed up for this, he needs to carry his own weight and be a dad.
Do what you have to do, but if you have to take drastic measures to make him be a man every time he needs to be, you’re with the wrong man. –kittycronic
What are your thoughts on this scenario? Do you think the wife is the right to turn off the wifi? Comment down below and let us know.
