Wife Asks If She’s Wrong For Making Fancy Looking Lunches For Her Sister-in-Law

• By Arsalan Sajid
• 4 months ago
• 5 minutes read

People with an artistic sense desire to express their affection for their loved ones by adding extra decorations to their meals. They can draw a cheerful face on the sandwich or use topping to build a heart on a snack for lunch so that when they open the lunchbox, they can enjoy eating.

OP used to prepare lunches for both her husband and herself to take to work. She adored customizing the dish with heart-shaped toppings or painting a charming face on the snack. It was her delightful activity, and it made her happy to open her lunch later at lunchtime and witness the blossoming. Following her accident, OP’s sister-in-law was forced to take a lower-paying job, and OP decided to cook her lunch as well because she was struggling financially and emotionally. She spent an extra ten minutes preparing her lunch, and because she lived nearby, her husband dropped her off at work. Read the complete article to find out how OP responded when her sister-in-law asked her to stop preparing her lunch so bourgeois.

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1. OP asks if she was wrong for refusing to cook meals with less flourishing for her sister-in-law.

2. OP had a fun hobby of making her and her husband’s lunch for work decorative by adding her personal flourishing to the meal.

3. OP started making her sister-in-law’s lunch along with her and her husband’s, as she was struggling both financially and emotionally after her accident.

4. OP’s sister-in-law requested that she stop flourishing her lunch as she felt uncomfortable in front of other colleagues.

5. OP was giving her sister-in-law free lunch with adding ten minutes effort to make it decorative. OP assumed that she might sharing the lunch with others.

6. OP stopped flourishing her sister-in-law’s lunch and labeled it, but her husband accidentally gave her the wrong box a few times.

7. OP’s sister-in-law asked her to stop flourishing any of the lunches due to the risk of swapping. OP refused, as she loved making it, so she got upset and stopped talking to OP.

8. OP’s sister-in-law refused to talk to OP until she stopped making lunches so bourgeois.

9. OP was making her sister-in-laws lunch regularly after their argument. OP’s husband also asked OP to make both lunches simple for the sake of her sister.

10. OP called her sister-in-law sweet and kind who watched OP’s daughter for free, and OP didn’t want to stop making lunches for her because of it.

OP didn’t understand her sister-in-law’s explanation for not allowing her to add some decorative flowers to her food, but she agreed to her request. OP made her lunch simple and tagged it as such, but her husband occasionally swapped their lunches in a rush, and her sister-in-law received the incorrect lunch. She again requested OP to refrain from adorning other meals owing to the potential of swapping. OP refused to stop performing her delightful activity, and her sister-in-law stopped talking to her, but she never stopped eating the lunch that OP prepared for her. She informed her brother that she would not speak to OP until she stopped flourishing their lunches. OP never ceased making her lunch because she was kind enough to look after OP’s daughter for free.

Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.

11. According to Redditor, there must be another story behind the scene that OP’s sister-in-law hid from her.

12. OP assumed that her sister-in-law might be sharing her lunch and didn’t want to show that it was cooked by someone else.

13. Yes, the easiest thing is to stop making her lunch anymore.

14. Yes, if she didn’t like OP’s lunch, why wouldn’t she make it herself?

15. Yes, OP’s sister-in-law should be thankful to OP instead of criticizing her extra effort.

16. Redditor did right after getting criticism on her bread from her mother.

17. That is savage!

18. Indeed! If she eats her lunch instantly, no one will see the flourishing on it.

19. Yes, OP’s sister-in-law can buy a different lunch box to save her from the confusion.

20. Redditor wouldn’t make any more lunches for her after seeing her thankless reaction.

OP should get a separate sort of lunchbox for her sister-in-law to avoid switching. Also, OP should create her own lunch full of decorative ideas because no one else, including her husband, appreciated her efforts. OP may excuse herself from making her sister-in-law’s lunch anymore, but because she was also assisting her with her daughter, it would be improper of her to stop doing so. The greatest idea is for OP to avoid wasting time on both her husband’s and sister-in-law’s lunches and instead pursue her hobby of designing her own food decorations. What do you think about it? Share your ideas in the comments box below, and stay connected to Wholesomeness.