Bride Asks Brother-In-Law Not To Bring His Dog To Her Wedding, BIL Gets Kicked Out For Ignoring Bride’s Request

• By Adina Tayyab
• 10 months ago
• 5 minutes read

Getting engaged and planning your dream wedding is both challenging and exciting. You aim for perfection while managing everyone’s expectations, knowing the stress that will come with it. Creating the guest list, choosing “the one” dress, and handling difficult family members are part of the process. Every family has one or two individuals who might disrupt the long-awaited celebration. It could be divorced parents who can’t stand each other, or like in this case, a brother-in-law who disrespects your wishes by bringing his badly behaved German Shepherd to your special day.

OP and OP’s husband got married a week ago, but things didn’t go as planned. OP’s brother-in-law, Jack (21), is spoiled and has always been passive-aggressive toward OP. Jack has a large, active German Shepherd he takes everywhere. He wanted to bring his dog to the wedding, but OP said no. Jack’s mom insisted the dog should come, but OP stood firm. At the wedding, Jack showed up with his dog, wearing a “dog dad” t-shirt. The dog ran around causing chaos and making guests uncomfortable. OP asked Jack to remove the dog, but he refused. After arguing, OP told Jack to leave. Jack’s mother called OP unreasonable and accused her of ruining the wedding. OP’s husband remained silent. Despite the family’s objections, OP felt she had to act as the dog was upsetting guests. Jack left with his dog, but the family remained upset, calling OP a bridezilla for enforcing the no-dogs rule at her wedding.

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Scroll down below to read the story in OP’s own words.

1. OP kicked her brother-in-law out of her wedding for bringing his dog as it caused chaos.

2. OP and husband got married a week ago, but things didn’t go as planned due to Jack, the spoiled youngest brother-in-law who causes trouble.

3. Jack dislikes OP, is passive-aggressive, and makes awful remarks. He has a large, active German Shepherd he takes everywhere.

4. Jack wanted to bring his dog to OP’s wedding. OP refused, causing confusion and offense since Jack always brings his dog. OP owns a chihuahua but avoids Jack’s dog.

5. Despite OP’s no-dog rule, Jack brought his dog to the wedding, causing chaos and discomfort among guests. OP was shocked and some friends even left.

6. OP asked Jack to remove his dog, but he refused. MIL called OP unreasonable. Husband stood by, suggesting they should’ve eloped to avoid the drama.

7. OP insisted Jack leave with his dog. Family was upset, saying OP ruined Jack’s joy. MIL said OP overreacted and shouldn’t have done that.

8. MIL accused OP of being a bridezilla for kicking out Jack and his dog. OP’s wishes were ignored, yet OP is blamed for the conflict.

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Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article.

9. It’s your wedding, and you set clear boundaries. Jack disrespected them.

10. No one should bring a disruptive dog to a wedding. Jack was out of line.

11. Your wedding, your rules. Jack’s behavior was inappropriate.

12. You have every right to have a dog-free wedding.

13. Jack and MIL disrespected your wishes. You did nothing wrong.

14. NTA. Guests should respect the bride and groom’s requests. Jack didn’t.

15. A wedding isn’t the place for a poorly behaved dog.

16. You set boundaries, and they were ignored. Not your fault.

17. Jack and MIL were rude and inconsiderate. You handled it well.

18. It’s unfair to expect you to tolerate disruptive behavior at your wedding.

19. It’s unfair to expect you to tolerate disruptive behavior at your wedding.

20. Jack brought chaos to your special day. You did what you had to do.

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