Sister Asks If She’s Wrong For Kicking Out Her Brother Who Told Her Fiance That She Cheated 9 Years Ago
People make mistakes in the past and learn from them in order to make their future more successful and prosperous. If they are guilty of their wrongdoings and wish to make amends in their lives, their loved ones should accept their apologies, since no one is perfect in this world.
OP described an incident that changed her life in an instant and left her powerless to fix it. OP allowed her 19-year-old brother Corner to live with her after their parents kicked him out because he was gay. Corner intended to play drinking games with pals for his birthday celebration, and he invited OP and her fiancé Hunter to join in. They played “Have I Ever Cheated Before?” and OP’s brother reminded her of her youthful adultery at the age of 17 with her ex-boyfriend. Read the complete article to find out how Hunter reacted to learning about OP’s past.
Source: Reddit
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1. OP wonders if she was wrong to kick out her brother, who was already disowned by their parents because he told OP’s fiancé that she cheated nine years ago.
2. OP allowed her 19-year-old brother Conner to reside with her after he was booted out of his parents’ home at the age of 16 because they discovered he was gay.
3. On his birthday, Conner brought his friends around and asked OP and her fiancé Hunter to join them for some drinking games.
4. They all got drunk and played. Never have I ever cheated before.
5. Hunter was adamantly against cheating after his ex did it with him. Unfortunately, OP cheated on her ex-boyfriend as a teenager and felt ashamed about it.
6. Given that he was aware of the past she had, OP’s brother asked her to drink during the cheating question.
7. Hunter became stunned and left the scene. He did not listen to the OP and broke up on the spot. OP was heartbroken to see how things ended.
8. Conner tried to apologize because he did not want to ruin their relationship, but OP refused. After pleading with her to let him stay, she asked him to leave.
Hunter was adamantly opposed to adultery when his ex-girlfriend cheated on him, leaving him emotionally devastated. OP cheated her ex-boyfriend when she was a teenager, but she is now 26 and has learned from her mistakes. After her brother revealed her previous adultery in front of her fiancé, he instantly fled the house and dissolved their relationship. OP was devastated and couldn’t accept his brother’s apologies, so she asked him to leave her home.
Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.
9. Redditor is concerned about OP’s brother, who became homeless after being kicked out of OP’s home.
10. Yes, OP’s fiancé needs to figure himself out because he should not penalize her for a mistake she made as a teenager.
11. Redditor tells the OP not to toss out her brother because he did not commit the mistake intentionally.
12. According to a Redditor, most couples told about their previous relationships when they started dating, but the OP didn’t because of his stance against infidelity.
13. Redditor has a valid point.
14. Redditor criticizes Hunter for keeping a grudge about a nine-years-old mistake done by OP.
15. Yes, OP’s brother made the same juvenile mistake as OP and deserved forgiveness.
16. Redditor claims OP’s fiancé was an a-hole for abandoning his love due to an old mistake.
17. Redditor disapproves of OP’s decision to kick out her brother.
18. Indeed! OP’s fiancé was wrong for dumping his fiancé for an old teenage mistake.
19. Redditor wants OP to forgive her brother and move on as her fiancé wasn’t worth the relationship.
20. Redditor believes that OP needs to explain her stance clearly to both her brother and fiancé.
OP should not hide anything from her past while developing a relationship, as it will be out sooner or later. His brother’s apologies should be accepted because he had no idea OP had not told Hunter about her youthful infidelity. The OP should not have kicked his sibling out for making an unintentional error. OP was upset and couldn’t tell what was wrong and what was right at the time, but she should know that anyone who can’t forgive her teenage mistakes would never be a decent partner in the future. What is your perspective on the OP’s situation? Share your thoughts in the comments section below, and stay tuned to Wholesomeness for more tales.
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