Woman Asks If She’s Wrong For Asking Waiter To Change Their Table Because Of A Crying Baby Next To Theirs
In the hustle and bustle of modern life, finding moments to pause and recharge can feel like a luxury beyond reach. Yet, when the opportunity arises to step away from our responsibilities, even if just for a brief respite, it becomes a cherished necessity. For parents, in particular, this often translates to seizing the chance for a night out, free from the constant demands of childcare.
These new parents in our today’s Reddit story were no exception to the need for a break. It was their first night out since their baby’s birth, and they spared no expense. They secured a babysitter and booked a table at a fancy restaurant in town. However, their evening took an unexpected turn when a couple with their own baby sat next to them. While the baby was initially quiet, typical baby fussiness soon ensued, disrupting the atmosphere. Desiring to leave, but already having placed their order, they discreetly asked their waiter if they could relocate to another table. Understanding their request, the waiter promptly arranged for a new table. Unfortunately, the parents overheard the conversation, leading to a confrontation between the mother and OP.
Continue scrolling down to delve into the full story.
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1. OP asks am I wrong for asking the waiter to change tables because a crying baby was seated next to me?
2. OP and her husband went out for dinner a few nights ago, their first time alone since their baby was born. It was OP’s second child but her husband’s first, so they made a big deal out of it and went to a nice, fancy restaurant.
3. A few minutes after they ordered, a couple with a small baby in a stroller sat at the table next to them. Initially, it was fine, but soon the baby started crying and continued intermittently.
4. They wanted to leave but had already ordered, so they asked the waiter to move them to the other side of the restaurant. He understood and quickly arranged a new table for them.
5. The couple with the baby overheard their conversation with the waiter, and the mom became upset, calling OP an AH.
6. Not wanting to start a fight, OP still felt annoyed by her attitude and told her she could do something about the crying; take the baby home to sleep so everyone else could enjoy their meals.
7. She continued to make comments, but OP ignored her, moved to their new table, and tried to enjoy their dinner.
8. This morning, OP told her sister what happened, and she said OP might have been an AH for mentioning the baby to the waiter and for her comment to the mom.
Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this.
9. As parents who got a babysitter for a night out, you shouldn’t have to endure someone else’s crying baby at a fancy restaurant.
10. Parents with crying babies should leave the dining room to soothe them, even if it means returning to a cold plate.
11. The Redditor is fed up with parents who don’t address their loud, crying children and expect others to endure it.
12. I’d also relocate if seated near a crying baby on a date night……..it’s your right to move if you’re uncomfortable.
13. Bringing a loud newborn to a fancy restaurant and expecting others to tolerate it seems unreasonable.
14. People shouldn’t cause public disturbances; get a babysitter or refrain from going out!!
15. As a parent of two, I avoid restaurants that might disturb others—it’s unfair to everyone.
16. The Redditor would have supported OP’s request for a table change.
17. You’re not the a**hole, but the other parents are. Bringing a baby to a fancy restaurant is inappropriate.
18. No one wants to sit next to a crying baby; asking the waiter to move was the right choice.
19. It’s understandably frustrating to pay for a babysitter and then be seated next to someone who didn’t bother to do the same.
20. OP was speaking to the waiter, not the mother, so it’s not her fault if she overheard their conversation.
The mother likely felt uncomfortable upon overhearing OP’s reason for requesting a table change. However, OP’s frustration with the situation is valid—enduring a dinner with a crying baby nearby can be unpleasant. OP and her partner deserved a night off, and spending it next to a loud disturbance would defeat the purpose. Do share your thoughts in the comments section below.
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