Mom Of Four Kids Flips Out On Mother-in-Law And Husband For Eating All Her Food, Asks If She’s Wrong
After giving birth to a child, a mother requires considerable care and support from her husband and other family members. At this tough time, when she needs to care for a small infant while nursing, her loved ones should look after her eating habits and nutrition because she does not have time to think about herself.
OP had received the opposite when she gave birth to her fourth baby four months ago, and it had been very tough for her to manage a small child while taking care of other kids. Her mother-in-law visited her house frequently, but not to help her but only to see her own son. Whenever she came to OP’s house, she deliberately ate all the food without asking which OP made or saved for herself. OP was annoyed with her behavior and complained to her husband, but he didn’t take her seriously. Hence, OP personally told her mother-in-law to stop eating her food, for which she apologized. The matter was out of her hands when she made pizzas for herself and her kids and went to nurse her child. As she came back, she discovered that all the food had finished and her husband’s mother had eaten the plate her son had saved for her. Read the entire story to learn about OP’s reaction and share your views in the comments section below.
Source: Reddit
1. OP questions whether it was appropriate for her to become enraged with her husband and mother-in-law for consuming food that had been reserved for her.
2. OP gave birth to her fourth child four months ago, and her mother-in-law visited her house frequently, not to help her with the baby but to see her own son.
3. OP’s mother-in-law always ate her food without asking permission, which made her upset. OP clearly forbade her for not eating her saved food, and she apologized.
4. OP made four homemade pizzas and went to take care of the baby after telling her kids to eat. OP came back after 45 minutes to see that all four pizzas were gone.
5. OP got infuriated at not getting any food left for her. OP’s eldest son explained that he saved a plate for her, which was eaten by her mother-in-law.
6. OP kicked out her husband and mother-in-law from her house after he referred to his mother’s act as an ‘honest mistake’.
7. OP’s husband left the house, and OP did not want him to come back because his mother would come with him again.
Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.8. Redditor wants OP to get relaxed after her husband left long with his mother.
8. Redditor wants OP to get relaxed after her husband left along with his mother.
9. Exactly! After her husband left, she had one less person to look after.
10. Redditor thinks OP’s husband and mother-in-law acted more childishly than her own kids.
11. Obviously! OP’s husband and his mother were not showing respect to her, which made her furious.
12. Indeed! A mistake is made once and becomes a crime if committed repeatedly.
13. According to Redditor, ignoring her concerns about his mother was quite inconsiderate of the OP’s husband.
14. Redditor states that OP’s life would be a lot easier without her husband, who never bothered to take care of her.
15. Yes, OP’s son was more sensible than her husband or mother-in-law in saving the food for his mother.
16. Redditor believes that OP’s elder son would not appreciate his stepfather’s behavior towards his real mother.
17. Indeed! Good people feel bad if they eat another’s meal by mistake.
18. OP explained that her fourth child was her husband’s first child, and his mother was purposefully attempting to build a rift between them.
19. According to Redditor, her mother-in-law intended to drive a rift between OP and her spouse.
20. Yes, OP’s husband should be more thoughtful of his wife, as she requires food and nourishment to feed his child.
OP was not wrong to be frustrated with her husband and his mother because she had made the same mistake numerous times and her husband had never taken her complaints seriously. OP was nursing his child and required more food and sustenance than others, yet he and his mother were self-centered enough to never express concern about OP’s condition. Her husband should have asked her whether she had eaten before finishing of the meal, as she was breastfeeding his child, not anyone else. OP cautioned his mother several times about not eating her food, but she continued to make the same error. What do you think about his mother’s selfish behavior? Please leave your ideas in the comments area and stay connected with Wholesomeness for more tales.
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