Woman Asks If She’s Wrong For Embarrassing Her Ex-Husband In Front Of His Employees

• By Arsalan Sajid
• 9 months ago
• 5 minutes read

The turning point in a marriage is when one spouse loses trust in the other partner, particularly when a father begins to distrust his own children, believing that they are not his. The partnership cannot continue with this mentality and lead to divorce because the wife cannot accept such accusations if she is always devoted to her husband.

OP’s ex-husband filed for divorce from her because he felt he wasn’t her son’s biological father. OP received no benefits from this divorce since she was unable to fight in court. OP maintained her relationship with her sister-in-law, who was certain about OP’s son. When she showed her brother the most recent photo of OP’s son, he became perplexed. OP was forced to consent to his decision to take his paternity test against her will. Discover OP’s ex-reaction upon discovering that OP’s son was, in fact, his by reading the entire narrative.

Source: Reddit

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1. OP wonders if she was a-hole for embarrassing her ex-husband in front of his employees.

2. OP got divorced from her ex because he didn’t believe that he was the real father of his son. After looking at his son’s recent picture, he decided to do a paternity test.

3. OP’s ex-husband proved to be the real father of OP’s son, and he started spending time with him.

4. OP’s ex-husband wanted to talk to her about their son’s future. OP had to agree, so she decided to meet him in his office.

5. He wanted to reconcile, but OP couldn’t forget his past behavior and yelled at him loudly in the office. She stopped confronting him when his assistant came in.

6. OP received an angry text from him for making him embarrassed in front of his employees as her loud voice was heard by the whole office.

After receiving the results, OP’s ex-husband began meeting with his son, but OP attempted to stay away from him and purposefully avoided their meeting. He texted her that they should meet to discuss their son’s future and finances. OP agreed to meet him in his office because she didn’t want to go to his residence or have him visit hers. He wanted to reconcile with the OP, but she refused. She began ranting at him loudly about what he had done to her in the past. She came to a halt when his assistant entered to inform him of his upcoming meeting. OP received his text message later, in which he chastised her for embarrassing him in front of his staff, since her voice was audible across the company.

Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.

7. Redditor wants OP to get a lawyer who talked to her ex about all the matters.

8. Yes, OP should file for child support from the day her son is born.

9. Redditor believes that OP’s ex will lose a lot of money in child support as no one feels sorry for him.

10. Redditor advises OP to save all her ex-text messages as proof to be used in front of the judge.

11. Redditor can’t comprehend why the divorce proceeded without getting a paternity test.

12. Yes, OP was better stay away from the ex-husband who divorced his wife on illusions.

13. Redditor emphasizes the need of hiring a lawyer since it relieves stress from having to talk to her ex about their son all the time.

14. Indeed! OP had to share her son with him but shouldn’t need to speak to him again.

15. Redditor’s experience in co-parenting suggests OP needs to talk with her ex about her son’s future.

16. Yes, OP couldn’t fight for her legal rights, hence ending the relationship with no child support.

17. Redditor advises OP to go for parallel parenting rather than civil parenting.

18. Yes, paternity tests should be done earlier for the child support fund.

19. Redditor disapproves of OP’s ex’s demand to make everything normal between them after he left them so easily.

20. Redditor was curious about the delayed paternity test, as it should be done before the divorce.

OP’s submissive personality causes her ex-husband to exert pressure on her and attempt to control her based on his own preferences. He refused to take the paternity test and divorced without knowing the truth, and now he seeks reconciliation, which is impossible. OP should engage a lawyer to speak with him because he cannot pressurise others. OP should consult him soon because her son will be entering preschool soon, and he has the right to be involved in his son’s education. What is your perspective on the OP’s situation? Please leave your ideas in the comments area below, and stay tuned to Wholesomeness for more tales.