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Single Dad Asks If He’s Wrong For Not Accepting Her Daughter’s Relationship With Her Married Old Boss

Loving someone is not wrong, regardless of how old or young they are, but entering into another relationship while married to someone else is genuinely immoral. Before doing something unjust, one should consider the possibility that they will face karma one day and be tricked by their loved ones.

OP was a single father with two children: Lucy, 23, and Josh, a year younger. He raised his children alone because their mother died when they were little. He attempted to offer their children every opportunity to receive an education without going into debt. Lucy started working in a firm and began paying rent to her father as a kind of repayment for his lifetime support. OP’s son lived two hours away and met them for a family supper. Lucy mentioned dating someone when they were eating supper, revealing that he was slightly older than her. OP had no problems before then because he was a supportive person. Read the complete tale to see how OP reacted when he discovered Lucy was dating her married boss, who was 41 years old.

Source: Reddit

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1. OP wonders if he was wrong in refusing to accept his daughter’s relationship with her married elder boss.

2. OP has a 23-year-old daughter Lucy, who graduated last year and began working for a company in a field unrelated to her degree.

3. OP supported his daughter and his son Josh as a single dad because their mother died when they were young. Lucy started paying him the rent with her new job to repay him for his support.

4. Lucy revealed that she was dating someone slightly older than her when Josh came to visit them for a family dinner.

5. One day, Lucy informed him that her boss’s wife was harassing her while she had done nothing wrong. OP wanted to know the real story behind it.

6. Lucy accepted that she had been in a relationship with her married employer for months and that he would eventually leave his wife for her.

7. OP didn’t like the fact that Lucy’s boyfriend was a few years younger than him. He opposed their relationship since it was unjust to his wife.

8. Lucy accused OP of being an awful father for not supporting her and the man she loved. She moved with her boss to avoid OP’s negativity.

OP found out about her relationship status when she told him that her boss’s wife was harassing her despite the fact that she had done nothing wrong. When OP inquired about the details, she revealed that she had been dating her employer for months. OP was startled because her supervisor was 18 years older than her, and he was already married and cheating on his wife with Lucy. The OP could not accept such a selfish and dishonest relationship and did not support Lucy in it. Lucy branded OP a bad father for not supporting her happiness and left to live with her boyfriend. OP wanted his daughter to be happy, but not by stealing someone else’s husband.

Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.

9. According to Redditor, OP was right in not supporting his daughter in her wrongdoing.

10. OP just wants her daughter’s true happiness because he loves her very much.

11. Redditor thinks that OP can’t do anything but wait till his daughter comes to her senses again.

12. Redditor has a valid point.

13. Redditor predicts that this relationship will end horribly, particularly for the OP’s daughter.

14. Yes, if OP’s daughter’s boss was serious about her, he should have divorced his wife before getting into a relationship with her.

15. Redditor wants OP’s daughter to see the real truth behind the fake love.

16. Yes, one can hope that OP’s daughter will realize her fault soon.

17. Redditor is against the way OP’s daughter’s boss cheated his wife in the name of true love.

18. Redditor condemns OP’s daughter for choosing a man who was selfish and dishonest in his prior relationship.

19. Redditor praises OP for loving his daughter but not supporting her wrong choices.

20. Indeed! If the boss left his old wife for OP’s daughter, then one day he will leave OP’s daughter for someone else.

OP did the right thing by not supporting his daughter’s trashing in another woman’s home because the man Lucy was dating at the moment was someone else’s husband. If he truly wanted to be with OP’s daughter, he should have divorced his wife before beginning a relationship with a 23-year-old woman. Lucy should comprehend that someone who is capable of cheating on his wife may one day abandon her for another girl who is younger. OP want his daughter’s genuine happiness, which a 41-year-old supervisor could not provide, but Lucy was duped by her boss’s phony affection. OP should leave her for a while since she will soon realize her error. What is your perspective on the OP’s situation? Share your views in the comments section below, and stay connected with Wholesomeness for more tales.

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