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Single Woman Goes On A Rant About How Much She Doesn’t Care If A Man Finds Her Good Enough Or Not, Sparks Debate

Finding the right partner can be tough for many. The endless search isn’t just frustrating; it can also affect your self-esteem and mental health. A woman in the story we have got for you guys today knows this struggle all too well. She recently shared her story on Mumsnet, revealing that she has faced 13 years of failed relationships.

Despite being attractive, financially independent, and having a supportive family, she finds herself repeatedly unsuccessful in love. Now, after much self-reflection, she’s turning to the internet for advice and support.

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Source: Mumsnet

Image Credits: Katerina Holmes (not the actual photo)

1. Time to honor the purpose of a rant.

2. OP came to the internet to rant about how she is 33 and hasn’t had a man fall in love with her except one guy.

3. OP said she is not desperate for a man.

4. However, she said she would be fine with being single if more people in this world were single.

5. OP also hinted that it is not difficult for her to find a man, but they mostly use her to boost their ego and then leave.

6. People have told her to go online and look for a relationship, but she doesn’t want it to happen that way.

OP says she isn’t desperate for men, but making an entire online post about it makes me think otherwise. Perhaps nothing is working out for her, so she is now playing this emotional card. Men love a sad story.

Let’s see what happens next. Scroll down below to continue reading!

Source: Mumsnet

7. OP’s standards are not too high, nor is she desperate. So she doesn’t understand why isn’t it working out.

8. Things have never worked out with men OP has previously dated.

So doesn’t that mean the problem is with OP?

9. The fact that OP can’t find a man who loves her makes her hate couples.

10. She wants all the bliss and benefits that come when you are in love with a man, like having a child, but none of it is happening for her, and she is sad.

Source: Mumsnet

Here’s what the internet had to say about this:

11. Perhaps they fear commitment.

Via Iwilldrawjapan

12. Please give it a read, OP.

Via NotAgainWilson

13. OP is desperate. For sure.

Via Justawaterformeplease

14. Is this all BS for some likes and spotlights?

Via VillageLifeIsTricky

15. A bit too much.

Via B**bettes

16. Even if OP found a man, now wouldn’t be the right them for her to enter a relationship with him.

Via Hateam

17. Would it be fair to that man if you started dating him in your current state of mind? I don’t think so.

Via keeptryinggirl

18. It will happen when it has to happen. Be patient, OP.

Via KnickerlessParsons

19. Maybe OP gives off desperate vibes during first meetings, and that is why it isn’t working.

Via SpringerFall

20. Perhaps telling your father about it all would help. Let him know about your feelings. Dads help if your relationship is good with them.

Via Newnamesameoldlurker

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