Entrusting friends with our children is a huge act of trust, as they are our most valuable treasures. But what if the babysitter seems to care more about the kids than their own parents? This happened to u/EphemeralPirate, who shared her experience on the r/AITA (Am I The A**hole?) subreddit.
OP agreed to watch a friend’s kids while they were abroad, with plans to return them home upon their late arrival. OP’s concern for safety led to a disagreement with the friend over leaving the kids unsupervised, causing tension in their relationship. AITA?
Scroll down below to read the story in OP’s own words.
1. OP refused to leave friend’s kids alone at home while parents were traveling, causing tension when the parents returned late and disagreed with OP’s decision.
2. OP agreed to watch a friend’s three kids (7F, 8M, 11M) for two weeks while the parents were out of the country.
3. The experience was good, but their return flight was delayed from 2:30 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. on the last day.
4. Originally, they planned to pick up the kids at our house, but after the delay, they asked us to bring the kids to their house.
5. OP refused because they go to bed early and suggested the parents pick up the kids at night or OP could drive them over by 8 a.m.
6. Friend wanted her kids home when she arrived, too tired to drive, suggested OP drop them off at 8 and leave them due to security system.
7. OP refused to leave kids alone at night despite security system; was shocked friend was okay with it, especially during a storm as 7F fears thunder.
8. OP’s SO stayed with the kids until late; friend isn’t speaking. OP worried for kids’ safety; friend may feel judged. AITA for prioritizing safety?
Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article.
9. You made a responsible decision based on safety. Your friend’s reaction seems exaggerated given the circumstances.
10. Safety concerns for young children are serious.
11. Your friend should have respected your boundaries and appreciated your care for her kids.
12. Protecting children from potential risks is never wrong.
13. Your friend should understand that safety always comes first.
14. OP did what any responsible person would do in that situation.
15. You did what was right for the safety of those kids. Your friend should appreciate your care and concern rather than be upset about it.
16.OP’s friend’s reaction shows a lack of understanding of your reasonable concerns.
17. OP’s decision was about safety, not judgment.
18.It’s understandable why you wouldn’t feel comfortable leaving young children unattended at night.
What are your thoughts on this story? What would you do, or how would you react if you were in OP’s position? You know that your feedback means a lot to us; therefore, we want you to share your thoughts in the comment section below. For more such articles, keep visiting Defused. Have a nice day!
