When life throws you a cheating husband and his surprise baby, you might need some serious backup. Infidelity is tough to handle, and an unexpected child can make things even more complicated. Sometimes, the only way to regain control is to set firm boundaries and make tough choices. It’s essential to prioritize your own peace and well-being, even if it means making difficult decisions.
This is the situation faced by Reddit user Parking_Marzipan1717, a 53-year-old woman, whose husband cheated on her with a much younger woman.
2. OP’s now ex-husband cheated on her with a woman 25 years younger and had a baby with her.
3. OP allowed Roger to stay with the baby given that she didn’t have to do anything. However, a month later he got had an heart attack and got bed ridden so OP had to ultimately look after the baby.
4. OP didn’t want to look after the baby as it wasn’t hers so she told her husband she wanted a divorce and contacted the child’s mom to come pick up the baby.
5. OP didn’t need anything out of the marriage and had decided to move out.
6. OP’s kids told her to stay with their father and help him recover but OP refused. She was done!
7. OP’s family including Roger believes OP did wrong. The matter was taken to the courts of the AITA community.
Did OP give birth to that baby? No. If she doesn’t want to love after it, no one can tell her otherwise because babysitting is no joke. If that baby’s future gets ruined, only OP’s ex-husband to be, and the baby mama would be to blame.
And they only wanted to come take the kid after she called. They didn’t care about the baby or how you dealt with it. Pathetic! Take a divorce and never look back.
