35 Stories Where People Chose Their Pets Over Their Partners

35 Stories Where People Chose Their Pets Over Their Partners

  • By Malaika
  • 5 months ago
  • 16 minutes read

Pets will always have your back.

There is a reason many people prefer animals over humans. After all, we are pretty sure, that they won’t run away at the first sign of trouble. Usually, they will help you in any way they can even put their life on the line. What I am saying is that we don’t deserve pets. However, humans are a different story. Each individual is different. And many will take advantage of you or think they have the right to make you do whatever they want.

That is why today we have some stories that depict toxic relationships. We often hear about the ultimatums that some give to their partners where they want their significant other to choose between the pet and them. Sometimes, a pet is left homeless and other times we get the following stories. This is why when one given you an ultimatum, they are not worth it.

#1 The dog was clearly taking revenge on the ex-wife.

Via SoIdidsomething,Gnarly_Sarley

Was getting a divorce and the ex-wife demanded my dog or she’d take me to court over the house. I reluctantly gave him to her. She called me five days after taking possession of him. He was chewing everything of hers, peeing all over her and her new boyfriend’s house.

I got him back and he never did any of that for me. Still have him and he is 15 years old now.

#2 When you think the world revolves around you.

Via Planksgonemad,kai-ote

He wanted me to rehome my cat because he wanted a dog instead. We were not living together, and I’m allergic to dogs. That didn’t matter, HE wanted me to have one, so he demanded I rehome the cat. I rehomed him instead. The look on his face when I took him to his mother’s house was pretty priceless.

#3 The guy learned what was truly important.

Via hoomphree,paw-Revere

This is my favorite story from when I worked in a shelter. A guy came in to surrender his cat, for the reason that his girlfriend didn’t like her. He starts filling out the paperwork, but partway through he just stops and says, “Screw this. I’m just going to break up with her instead.” He picks up the cat and walks out the door, presumably to leave his GF. I hope he stuck to it and he and his cat got a happy ending.

#4 Cat was well aware that there was something wrong with him.

Via palefrogs,xPantheriuMx

I had an incredibly toxic boyfriend who had at one point paid the fee for a rescue cat for me for my birthday. the cat REALLY didnt like him, she wasnt aggressive she was just skittish and didn’t want to be around him. We had gotten into a fight earlier that day about something unrelated and he decided to start ranting about the cat and how he believed we should get rid of her, that she was a bad animal JUST because she was skittish ( she was a rescue!! and a very loving one at that if you let her come to you when she felt safe ).

He started to threaten to leave her at the humane society or get rid of her when I wasn’t around so I couldn’t stop him. I told him to get out of my house and immediately broke up with him. Butters is still making quality biscuits at my side and loves to take naps with me.

#5 That is what he deserved.

Via Caramellatteistasty,keelele

My ex used to chase his cat around the house. Poor kitty was so scared. I took him to divorce court over that cat. Now she’s sleeping on my lap with her sister and she never has to run around the house unless it’s happy zoomies.

#6 Is this person psychic?

Via buffalosansbuffalo,uninsomnia

I remember him saying my diabetic cat needed to go so he could get a dog. We weren’t even living together. I looked him dead in the eyes and said. “My cat will outlive this relationship” considering she was really sick at the time he said it was unlikely and stormed off. We broke up 6 years ago and my cat is still going strong.

#7 The only ones who give ultimatums are insecure in their relationship.

Via weasleydreamteam,Westacious

To be fair, anyone giving you an ultimatum to choose between them and one of your loved ones (human or otherwise) isn’t interested in a healthy relationship of any kind, and so isn’t worth your time. Long story short, never choose the one giving the ultimatum.

#8 That is a bit manipulative but what can I say?

I had a friend who was dating this real assh**e guy. One weekend her parents came to town with a puppy. Let her play with it and love it all weekend. At the end of the weekend, they said “you can keep this dog if you dump assh**e.” She didn’t even think about it, dumped him immediately. –glossy_beetle

#9 Crazy cat people are the best.

Via catswhocant,emilyrebekah

I dated a guy who told me he would convince me to choose him over my cats. I broke up with him shortly after, mostly due to that. Was happily single, then my now-husband comes along and says, “I’ve always wanted to be the husband of the crazy cat lady.” Way to win a girl’s heart.

#10 The dog kind of saved her in the long run.

Via Eyfordsucks,cammykik

My ex-husband was a constant cheat, terribly abusive, and loved to destroy anything I owned in order to punish and control me. I put up with anything and everything for over two years because “I loved him”. The last time I ever saw him he yelled at/hit my dog. I instantly packed my cat and dog and left. Immediately filed for divorce. Haven’t seen him since.

He’s lost his wife, source of income, vehicle, maid, scapegoat, bodyguard, sober driver, and emotional support in ten seconds. He was absolutely astounded I chose the dog over him, regardless of how many times he was warned not to act out around her. She is my soul mate and I would die for her.

#11 Was she supposed to lie?

Via honkdogs,jenpriester

Not me, but my sister was dating a guy who angrily accused her of loving her elderly cat more than him. She said she did — she had had him for 14 years and they had only been dating for about a month. Guess he wasn’t expecting that because he just kind of shut up and left the house.

#12 At least they understood.

Via queerqunari,jamiej27

I have an elderly rat (going on four years, which is quite the feat for a rat). I’ve raised him since he was a baby with his brother, who passed away two winters ago. When we moved in with my in-laws over the summer, they didn’t want me to bring my rat. I straight up told my partner that I’ll live somewhere else for a while (we’d been living together for almost three years at that point) because my rat is my responsibility, he’s very old, and that I was going to see him through to the end.

They were a little upset and accused me of choosing the rat over them, but I explained that he’s an animal that relies on us. It worked out, I convinced my in-laws to let me bring him, and we’re all still kicking. He’s on his last days and I’m glad I’m here with him. He’ll be buried with his brother when it’s time.

#13 But why?

Via 40ozSmasher,Wavesonics

I found out my girlfriend was hitting my dog when I wasn’t around. I left her and she was unable to admit that was the reason. I guess answering the question of “what happened to you guys?” With “oh he found out I was secretly hurting his dog” might make for awkward conversations.

#14 He thought being passive-aggressive was the way to go.

Via itsJussaMe,000kapi

I had a live-in bf (we had been together a year, decided to cohabit because LDR wasn’t fulfilling). I had a cat for 15 years. He didn’t demand I get rid of my old man but he repeatedly made comments about how it was time to PTS because my cat was old and thin. He always commented on my cat’s weight. Even went so far as to stop by a vet and pick up cremation pamphlets so I could shop for urns.

I spent $$$ on all senior bloodwork, checked thyroid, etc. He had a clean bill of health because I always provided the best nutrition and care. One day I told him, “the next time you mention me putting my cat to sleep or imply I’m not doing right by him make sure your bags are packed.” He was gone 3 weeks after that. The cat had 3 more wonderful years before cancer got him and I did PTS. People: 15+ years of love and emotional investment will trump your new relationship, every time.

#15 Who kicks a dog?

Via clarkyto,AshleyKay1997 1

This was a long time ago but I just started dating this person and I was told they hated my dog, it was a bit of a shock but I was like no biggie just get to know my dog and you will fall in love with him.

So the next time, we had a doggie date and HE TRIED TO KICK MY DOG. I literally grabbed my dog and turned around and walked away. And that was that!!!

#16 We also have a sweet story in the midst.

Via shaylaa30,sloecrush

I knew a couple that had to break up because she was badly allergic to his elderly dog. They were both understandings of the situation and there’s was no animosity. They ended up getting back together after the dog had passed away and are now very happy.

#17 Breaking up is the only solution in this situation.

Via Niall_Nine_Hostage,strawberryhichew

My friend had his girlfriend spend the night at his house. While he was making her breakfast she began complaining about his “nasty dog”. My friend told her, “You should stop complaining, the dog lives here and you don’t”. They broke up a week later.

#18 If he was this mean to a cat, imagine how he would act towards a person.

Via Aurora_Jones,otherwise_World9095

Not me but my sister choose our cat over her boyfriend of 4 months. He was furious when she dumped him and called her an idiot for picking a “dirty fleabag” over him. Cat was not a dirty fleabag, he just hated pets and wanted to try to control my sister. I was relieved when she dumped him. I never got good vibes from him.

#19 Even the ex knew what was important.

Via pelukken,teoman_asyn

True story:

ex says “I’m leaving”

I’m all worried about our cats. Don’t want to lose them, don’t want to separate them

ex says: “Don’t worry I’m not taking the cats”

Immediate relief.

#20 If you are not ready to hear the answer, don’t ask.

Via Fancy_Cassowary,tuzik

She acted as she’d never even considered I’d choose the cat over her. I don’t think that thought had ever entered her mind. Then she went into a big spiel about how I’m a loser, I’m missing out, there’s only one of her, etc etc. Yeah, I knew all that when I put my foot down over her idiotic jealousy of the cat liking me more than her.

The cat is now 16 and still with me, happy in her senior years. There have been other women since her, ones that treated me a lot better than she did. It was a total win for both the cat and myself.

#21 I am glad, she went no contact with her sorry excuse of a mother.

Not my partner but my mom gave away my dog when I was away on a trip visiting my sister when I was 18. She called me while I was away to explain my dad was going to leave her if she didn’t rehome him.

Fast forward several years later.. my mom gave her cat to my 7-year-old daughter only to later take the cat back after getting mad at me for something. 2 years later my daughter still cries over missing the cat. I went no contact with her immediately following that incident. –undecidedlyhappy

#22 He wasn’t to be inside the bedroom either.

Via michaelleehoward,source

I had a boyfriend I dated for a few months and things were starting to get serious. One day he said “you know if we ever move in together your dog will have to be an outside dog. Dogs aren’t meant to be inside.” My dog was a 7pound chihuahua. I told him if he was not willing to change his mind we would not be moving forward with us. He told me it was my loss. I was ok with that. After that, I would try and find excuses for my pup and potentials to meet before.

When I met my now-husband he told me he did not like small dogs. He met my pup and fell in love. Sadly she passed away two years ago but he just celebrated 12 years ago. I hope the other guy found someone good for him.

#23 Spiders might not be for everyone but nobody has the right to force someone.

Via CrazySnekGirl,spokaneBATMAN

I bred tarantulas professionally for a few years. Most were in a specially designed shed outside, but I had a few in the house. Was totally upfront with people when dating, and if it was a dealbreaker, then no hard feelings. I dated this one guy for a few months, but we’d always go out or to his. I didn’t really think much of it. Around month 4, he started getting annoyed and one day, straight up asked me how long it was gonna take to “sell a few spiders”.

I thought he was talking about my actual job, so I was like, “oh, I sell them in bulk to a supplier. He’s coming round on Tuesday, actually.” And my bf was so relieved, but I couldn’t really understand why. So the dude comes round on the Weds and sees the tarantulas in the house and goes on an absolute tirade about how I lied to him, how I’ve broken his trust, and how he’s gonna need time to heal. NGL, I just burst out laughing. I was like, “you really thought I was gonna give up my job for you?”

Well, that was apparently not the reaction he expected. He stormed out, yelling about how I was such a dumb bitch for not realizing how great he was lmao. Tried to crucify me on social media, but he just ended up looking like an idiot.

#24 When your partner takes the break up too well.

Via booja,Ok_Mechanic_1787

I had a fortnight to decide, him or my cat. I thought he was joking! Nope, a fortnight later and he asked for my decision. We’d been in a relationship for nearly two years and were living together, I loved him but the whole thing was absurd and I wasn’t getting rid of my cat. We broke up and in general, he took it well. Too well. I was pretty sure he wanted to break up with me, but couldn’t admit it.

So I left with my cat and went to stay with my brother. I came back that weekend to sort out our joint possessions only find him sneaking out the back door the 19-year-old receptionist from his work that he’d been [having sex] in my bed. 12 years later and I and the cat are doing great! I hope he’s turned into a better human being.

#25 At least he learned to keep his mouth shut.

Via princessarielle6,Cute_Idea_4946

I was in elementary school when my stepdad made a comment about getting rid of my cats. I told him that we had the cats longer than him , and I liked them better. He looked at my mom to defend him, and she told him she had told him not to talk about my cats. One passed away at the age of 14 when I was in college, and the other passed away at 19 after I had graduated. He was never cuddly with them but was always nice after that conversation.

20 plus years later he has his own cat that adores him and hates my mom.

#26 The dog chose the right person.

Via Davis1511,Dc1249

The dog chose me lol I divorced my husband and his dog destroyed his house and sadly wouldn’t eat properly or do anything but stress until he came to live with me and my dog. But to be fair, my ex is terrible at pets. He just kept him outside all day and night with no interaction.

The dog is a Great Dane and at the time it was me, my toddler, and my dog in a little townhouse but we gladly took in the big guy over keeping him alone and miserable with his actual owner.

#27 He had it all but then he ruined it.

Via Tokidoki99,Blaze12312

Late here- my aunt started dating this guy a while after my uncle passed away. Seems nice at first. She ends up basically buying him a house. He quits his job, the whole 9 yards.

My aunt has 2 dogs. Now apparently this guy decided he hates dogs now and they’re too loud and annoying and ends up giving her the ultimatum. When she chooses the dogs he tells her she’ll never find love with those dogs around. So he’s kinda jobless and out of housing right now. Good luck to him.

#28 This is no sweet at all.

Via zoule,proffie

I briefly dated a guy who pretended to not be severely allergic to cats. He came over for the first time doped up on Benadryl and I confronted him about it, and he tearfully told me he hoped to keep his allergy a secret long enough for me to fall for him and choose him over my cat.

And that this was a repeat strategy for him.

I laughed so hard (poor confused guy) and told him the only winning move was not to play. I happily never saw him again.

#29 Sometimes pets help you realize the important things in life.

Via happy–muffin,Sudden-looper

we had a puppy together but she didn’t end up liking her very much. 8 months later thanks to the ultimatum she broke up with me, it was the best decision ever. It was an eye-opener when I finally realized how unhappy I was in that toxic relationship. My mom offered to take care of the puppy since I was finishing up school, she’s now my mom’s dog and she turned 12 this year!

#30 And she hasn’t even mentioned everything.

Via Lakechrista,Demonrock

Being told to get rid of my puppy for acting like a puppy and ’embarrassing him in front of the neighbors’ for ‘stealing’ something he promptly took back to them was the last straw for me kicking out my ex. Not even the ab**e or the cheating.

#31 I can never understand why people cheat.

My ex was allergic to cats and had asthma. I had a cat. He just kind of moved in with me without asking over time. I wasn’t against it. His allergies and his asthma never seemed to flare up or anything too badly with my cat around. We kept the place clean, etc.

He asked me to get rid of my cat multiple times. I said no every time. Turns out the jerk was cheating on me with multiple women. Dropped the dude like a hot potato. Glad I kept my kitty. –notrelatedtoamelia

#32 Who gets jealous of a dog?

Via medvsastoned,reddrc

Well, he got jealous anytime I’d even pet the dogs in front of him. He started treating them terribly. Eventually, he told me, basically, that he knows I wouldn’t get rid of them but so long as they were around our relationship would be negatively impacted and would deteriorate. Then we broke up. Shrugs

Imagine feeling threatened and jealous of your SO (of 14 years!) petting a dog. They are well behaved, housebroken, no behavioral issues, no financial burden, and honestly they are low maintenance in the attention department too. That’s when I noticed something was very off and went ahead and proved him right. I didn’t get rid of my dogs, and I just started distancing myself.

#33 What did she expect?

Via Manfroo1,iizanasshole

Not my story but my friend. His GF forced him to choose between her or dog but that dog was a remaining memento from his deceased mother and of course, he instantly dumped his girlfriend. His GF went from facefull with expectations to beet red full of shame and anger and smashed his house windows when she left his house.

#34 You never know what is going to happen.

Via angibell92,goha_rus

I love my chihuahua. She’s super sweet and never growls or has ever bit anyone. I have had so many guys say “I hate chihuahuas/ I already hate your dog” before even meeting her. I had one guy lose his sh*t when I told him I was choosing to not go on another date with him because of how he talked about how sh***y and mean my dog was on a first date when I was asked what breed she was.

My boyfriend now said the same things at first before he saw her and fell absolutely in love within 2 minutes. They’ve been best friends for almost 5 years.

#35 Not everyone likes pets but you have to mention that before getting serious.

Via chronictoker21,thatzipguy

I never knew how bad some people could hate cats. I and my fiancé (seven years)broke up. And I think it was partly because I had gotten a cat a year before she moved in. When she finally moved in, she wanted me to get rid of it. She left after barely six months of living together.

Have you ever chosen a pet over your ex? Comment down below and let us know.

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