Girlfriend Lies To BF About Event Start Date Because She’s Tired Of Him Being Late Every Time

• By Arsalan Sajid
• 3 months ago
• 5 minutes read

Effective time management is the key to success. Individuals who unnecessarily waste their time and make others wait for them lose credibility, and people will never trust them again. They require a reality check from their loved ones, who can attempt to help them see their mistake. 

OP wanted to share a similar experience involving her partner, who had a nasty habit of being an hour late for every event. OP was the type of person who feels that if someone doesn’t come 10 minutes early, they are late. In contrast, her boyfriend had awful time management skills. If a meeting began at 11 a.m., he literally began to prepare 5 minutes before that time, so they were always one hour late. OP wanted to teach him the importance of appearing on time, so she lied to him about the time of the next gathering. Read the entire story to find out how OP’s partner reacted when he found out about the lie.

Source: Reddit

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1. OP asks if she was a-hole to lie to her boyfriend about when the event would start.

2. OP wanted to get the point of view of the readers as her boyfriend got really mad about the incident.

3. OP’s boyfriend was terrible at time management and always came late. OP hated it because she always liked to come early.

4. OP gave proof by telling the story of their late arrival at the family lunch because he had started to get ready at the meeting time.

5. At the next family gathering, OP lied about the start time, and OP’s partner got ready an hour later than usual, but they arrived on time.

6. OP told her boyfriend about her lying to make him ready on time, but he got upset to know that OP used to lie to him.

7. OP claimed that her boyfriend had no problems with his family; instead, he enjoyed those gatherings but could not manage his time.

8. OP decided not to lie again in the future but wanted to know if she was wrong to get him ready on time.

9. OP didn’t expect such a response to her post.

10. OP thanked everyone for commenting on her post.

OP lied to him about the event’s start time, telling him an hour earlier. Her boyfriend began getting dressed 5 minutes before the appointed time, as is customary and came expecting to be an hour late. Since all of the guests had just arrived, OP felt relieved that he was not late for the first time. Her partner became irritated after she told him about her lying regarding the event’s start time. He chastised her for telling him a falsehood and stated that how he would believe her in the future. OP informed him that he already knew her passwords and pin numbers for all accounts, and she had nothing to hide. OP lied simply because she wanted him to learn time management.

Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.

11. Yes, if OP’s boyfriend agrees to get ready on time, then OP should promise him not to lie again.

12. Redditor favors OP for lying to her boyfriend, as he deserved it.

13. There is no benefit to arriving an hour late for dinner unless you simply want dessert.

14. Redditor wants OP to get clear with him about her unbearable attitude of always being late.

15. According to Redditor, it was a white lie to save the embarrassment of coming late.

16. Redditor believes that OP did the right thing as her boyfriend was behaving childishly.

17. Redditor criticizes people who don’t respect others’ time.

18. Well! It was really too much.

19. A Redditor cut off a 20-year-old friend for ditching their meeting plan and behaving like nothing happened.

20. Redditors are against coming late to dinner when everyone is already eating.

By overreacting to her lying, OP’s boyfriend was merely attempting to wriggle out of his own responsibilities. OP had done the right thing by getting him ready on time. Since time management is essential for success in life, it is considered a white lie that he was told in order to make amendments to his life. OP could try to let him arrive on time at several more events and refrain from telling her about her lying. His viewpoint may have changed as a result of this exercise, and he began to see the advantages of arriving on time. He said that OP was unreliable, yet OP granted him access to her phone and passwords, therefore he shouldn’t have thought that way. How do you feel about the circumstances of OP? Share your thoughts in the comments section, and stay connected with Wholesomeness for more tales.