Bride Wouldn’t Let Grandparents-In-Law Ruin Her Wedding With Their ‘Special’ Moment, Gets Blasted Online
Planning a wedding was always a wonderful and beautiful experience for the bride and groom. They arranged every detail based on their wishes and preferences, and they wanted their friends and family to attend the ceremony with them. However, if the couple disregards the interests of their guests in favor of their own choices, they risk offending those who have come to support them.
OP describes a similar incident in which she refused to allow her husband’s grandparents to play a slow song at her wedding that she didn’t like. OP was a passionate dancer who enjoyed dancing to fast music and had been learning since she was five. OP met her husband at their dancing sessions, and their shared passion for dance drew them together. They envisioned their wedding as a dance party with their friends and family to cheerful music. OP became agitated when the DJ abruptly played a slow song with the explanation that it had been requested by OP’s husband’s grandparents. OP mistreated the elderly couple and changed the music again to loud and fast, which was not appreciated by her in-laws. Read the entire story to learn about what happened next, and share your views about it in the comment section below.
Source: Reddit
1. OP asks if she was an a-hole for not allowing any slow songs to be played at her wedding.
2. OP’s husband’s parents turned against her because of what happened a year ago.
3. OP was a passionate dancer who enjoyed dancing to rapid tunes. OP and her husband both enjoyed dancing and envisioned a wedding filled with dancing to fast music.
4. On their wedding, OP and her friends were having a great time dancing to rapid music when the DJ suddenly switched to the slowest and most boring song.
5. After realizing that the music had been requested by her husband’s grandparents, she forced the DJ to replace it while disrespecting the old couple in her drunken state.
6. OP’s husband’s parents were enraged by OP’s disrespectful behavior with the grandparents and chastised her for not allowing them to play the music, but OP was determined about following her own wishes.
7. After OP’s parents kept pressuring him to admit that OP was at fault for the incident, OP’s spouse demanded an apology from OP and OP asked the Redditors for assistance.
8. OP requested her readers to stop leaving nasty comments on her posts.
9. OP was backlashed by the readers because of her rude behavior with her husband’s grandparents.
10. OP expressed that she and her spouse had decided to play only upbeat music throughout their wedding, but he later became angry due to his parents’ brainwashing.
Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.
11. Redditor disapproves of OP’s behavior with her husband’s relatives, stating that the reception was a family affair that all guests should have enjoyed.
12. Yes, she should have to tolerate it for her husband as it was only one song for his grandparents.
13. Redditor thinks the DJ should be told in advance that if someone requests their music, they should try to come up with a reason not to play it.
14. Certainly, since the guests came to support the bride and groom by spending their money and time, they should be treated with respect.
15. Redditor thinks that OP humiliated her husband’s grandparents publicly.
16. Redditor did a great job.
17. Indeed! It wasn’t just OP’s wedding, but also her husband’s.
18. Redditor berates OP for hurting the guests with a song that lasts only three minutes.
19. According to Redditors, a reception is an opportunity to thank guests from both the bride and groom’s sides for attending the wedding, and they should be treated with respect.
20. Yes, it should be arranged as a party only for her friends instead of a reception with respected guests.
OP disrespected her husband’s grandparents, which could not be appreciated by any family member. She made the excuse that she was drunk at the time, but she could apologize after getting sober. According to her, it was her wedding, but she forgot that it was her husband’s wedding too, and they were his grandparents. OP should realize that the guests were invited to the ceremony to enjoy it rather than getting disturbed by the loud music, which many people may not like. What is your opinion about OP’s behavior? Write your thoughts in the comment section, and stay connected with Wholesomeness for more tales.
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