Redditor Lashes Out At Girlfriend’s Friend For Demanding Them To Get Rid Of Their Pets Who Get Affected By Her Service Dog

• By Arsalan Sajid
• 5 months ago
• 5 minutes read

Parents must never facilitate their children’s ingrown entitlement, as this causes issues for others. The children used to receive preferential treatment from them and are expected to continue receiving it from others throughout their lives. Their conviction that the world revolves around them resulted in several significant rejections, making their existence miserable.

Carrie was a prime example of someone who believed that she and her dog were more important than OP’s cats, and that OP should favor her over them. OP lived with his girlfriend and two cats in a duplex with a backyard. OP’s girlfriend’s friend Carrie came over with her dog a few times in a month, and OP brought her cats to their bedroom because his cats did not get along with Carrie’s dog. After she went, his cats took a while to feel at ease and avoided the areas where the dog sat or slept.The issue developed when OP’s girlfriend began working from home, and Carrie decided to come every day who was also working from home and felt lonely. Read the entire story to find out how OP managed the scenario that harmed his cats’ health after seeing the dog every day.

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1. OP asks if he was a-hole to ask his girlfriend friend to stay at the porch or not come so frequently because her dog was affecting OP’s cats.

2. OP’s girlfriend’s friend Carrie came to visit her sometimes with her dog. OP had two cats who didn’t get well with dogs. OP took his cats to their bedroom to save them from inconvenience.

3. OP’s girlfriend started working from home, and Carrie started coming daily with her dog to work with her, which was affecting OP’s cats’ health.

4. OP talked to his girlfriend about his cats’ conditions and suggested shifting the workplace to the basement, or she went to Carrie’s place to work.

5. OP’s girlfriend and Carrie rejected the idea of going to her place, as Carrie needed their backyard for her dog. She refused to compromise with OP in every way.

6. OP had had enough, and he told Carrie that her dog was bothering his cats, and that they needed to move to the porch for work or she would stop coming every day.

7. Carrie suggested OP rehome his cats, as her dog needed to stay with her. OP told her that he cares only about his cats’ wellbeing and not others. Carrie left, and OP’s girlfriend chastised OP for being rude to her friend.

8. According to OP’s girlfriend, Carrie’s family treated her as if she were made of glass, and she always wanted others to help her.

OP’s pets began avoiding going outside from his bedroom. They were timid while eating and had bathroom accidents due to their dread of the dog. OP approached his girlfriend to persuade her friend not to bring her dog, but she stated that Carrie needed her dog to stay with her. OP proposed converting their basement into an office or going to Carrie’s home to work. OP’s girlfriend revealed that Carrie wanted to use their backyard to let her dog play and exercise while she spent time with her girlfriend. OP plainly asked Carrie to either stay in the porch to work or stop visiting every day. Carrie advised that OP rehome his pets, which upset him. Carrie left the house and never came back.

Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.

9. Redditor is surprised to see Carrie’s bold statement about telling someone else to rehome his cats for her dog.

10. Indeed! Carrie had the audacity to ask such a favor, which is unbelievable.

11. Yes, it wasn’t Carrie’s home, but cats.

12. Carrie was taking advantage of OP’s place, feeling entitled.

13. Redditor supports OP since it is his and his pets house, and Carrie has no right to ask for their removal for her.

14. Yes, Carrie’s demand is unreasonable, and OP’s girlfriend shouldn’t support her in this.

15. According to Redditor, OP has a girlfriend problem who doesn’t support him.

16. Yes, Carrie sounds like an entitled person who thinks that her dog is more important than OP’s cats in their own home.

17. Redditor believes that OP’s big yard was the real reason for her coming every day.

18. Redditor chastised OP’s girlfriend and Carrie for not giving importance to others’ feelings.

19. Redditor criticized OP’s girlfriend for prioritizing her friend over OP and his cats.

20. Indeed! Guests are less important than someone living in the house.

OP has every right to be concerned about the well-being of his cats, and if certain people are causing problems for them, he must prohibit them from entering his home. Carrie’s dog caused OP’s cats’ failing health, and she should apologize to the host rather than advise him to rehouse his pets. She was the guest, not them, so she had to accommodate according to the residents. If she really needs her dog to be with her, she should go with the OP’s proposal. OP’s girlfriend should stand with her boyfriend because Carrie’s demand was unreasonable. She should prioritize her relationship with her partner, which may be harmed as a result of her actions. What do you think about it? Please leave your opinions in the comments area below, and stay tuned to Wholesomeness for more tales.