OP’s marriage of almost a decade came crashing down when she received a startling call from her children’s school. Upon arriving, she discovered her ex-husband introducing their kids to his new partner, essentially declaring her as their “new mom.” This revelation shattered OP’s world, highlighting the painful aftermath of infidelity in relationships.
1. OP wonders if they’re wrong for allowing their ex and his spouse to embarrass themselves during a court proceeding.
2. OP, 33f, shares two kids, 11m and 9f, with her ex, Liam, 35m. Two years ago, Liam’s affair revelation prompted OP to file for divorce.
3. OP’s kids discovered Liam’s affair when he introduced Jean as their new mom outside their school, asking them to tell OP they wanted to live with him and Jean.
4. OP’s kids left for school in what they thought was a happy home, but Dad arrived with another woman, revealing his infidelity and plans for a new family, leaving the kids distraught.
5. During thier divorce, Liam sought sole custody and wanted Jean to adopt the kids, prolonging proceedings. His claims of entitlement to marital assets made a mockery of court.
6. Since their divorce, Liam’s marriage to Jean has brought added conflict. When they were together, we celebrated birthdays together with the kids, a tradition that continued until recently.
7. Liam expects OP to continue involving Jean in their birthday tradition. OP’s brother now helps the kids, but Liam insists OP or her brother should include Jean.
8. OP’s ex accuses her of parental alienation for refusing to continue their birthday tradition with his new wife. He filed a motion, alleging broken promises.
9. OP’s ex accused her of trying to damage his relationship with the kids, but OP presented evidence to refute his claims. Both he and his new wife were scolded by the judge. AITA?
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10. Your ex-husband’s actions were thoughtless and hurtful. He should have handled the situation with more consideration for your feelings and the well-being of the children.
11. Not the A-hole. Your ex-husband should have approached the situation with more sensitivity and respect, especially considering the impact on you and the children.
12. Definitely NTA. Your ex-husband should have communicated with you before introducing the kids to his new partner.
13. Not the A-hole. It’s completely understandable that you’re upset about how your ex-husband handled the situation.
14. People are on OP’s side.
15. You’re not responsible for your ex-husband’s actions.
16. He should’ve handled the situation with more sensitivity, especially when involving the kids.
17. We got a lawyer’s insight.
18. It’s understandable that you feel hurt and blindsided by the ex-husband’s actions.
19. OP does not need to worry about his ex’s blunders.
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