Girl Hesitates To Suddenly Leave Apartment Because Roommate Won’t Be Able To Survive, Asks If She’s Wrong To Take Revenge
Roommates should aim to create a supportive and respectful living environment by respecting each other’s boundaries and needs. Maintaining harmony involves respecting personal space, sharing household duties fairly, and being considerate of each other’s routines and lifestyle choices.
OP (26F) has lived with roommates Jason (30M) and another guy (35M) for 1.5 years. Jason used to be OP’s best friend, but after a weird phase with daily mushroom use, he started stealing weed and changed for the worse. Jason took over the shared living space and started sleeping and keeping his kid in the living room. Jason smokes weed again and takes small things from OP. OP is broke, a nursing student, and found a great apartment deal. OP’s name isn’t on the lease, so OP told roommates they’re moving out by the first. Roommates are upset but OP needs to prioritize themselves.
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Scroll down below to read the story in OP’s own words.
1. OP left roommates on short notice, knowing they can’t fill the spot, because OP feels taken advantage of and needs to prioritize themselves.
2. OP has been living with two roommates and for almost a year and a half.
3. OP’s roommate Jason changed after a year of daily mushrooms, stealing weed, and dominating shared space, straining friendships.
4. OP’s roommate Jason, who has a kid, took over the house, using the living room, smoking weed, and taking OP’s things like coffee and fruit.
5. OP is broke, a nursing student, and found a cheap apartment. Told roommates they’re moving out by the first. OP’s name isn’t on any lease.
6. One roommate isn’t talking, and Jason says OP didn’t give enough notice. OP feels taken advantage of, not legally responsible, and must do what’s best.
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Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article.
7. OP, you did what you had to for your own well-being. NTA.
8. Please don’t stay.
9. Prioritizing oneself is important.
10. Your roommate’s behavior is unacceptable, and you made the right choice.
11. Hope OP finds a better place.
12. You are not responsible for their poor living conditions.
13. Mental health first.
14. NTA. Your roommates created this mess, not you.
15. NTA. You deserve a better living situation. Good for you for finding one.
16. Taking advantage of you and stealing is not okay.
17. You owe it to yourself to live in a comfortable environment.
18. OP is not obligated to stay in a toxic living situation.
19. Good decision to move out.
20. Sane advice.
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