Mom Asks If She’s Wrong For Making Her Daughter Leave Because Her Husband Is Attracted To Her
When a marriage ends, the children who are the responsibility of both parents but wind up living with only one of them suffer the most. The situation became more difficult when they were involved with their new partner, and the children were forced to accept them regardless of their feelings. Most of the time, children refuse to form new relationships, becoming inflexible and miserable.
OP was in a similar scenario with her second husband and 23-year-old daughter from her first marriage, who had been living with them for four years. OP’s kid suffered from dissociative identity disorder as a result of her childhood hardships, which included seeing her parents’ bad marriage and being teased by her classmates for her unsanitary, gloomy attitude. OP and her daughter had a difficult connection since her daughter resented her for her childhood problems. OP was unable to stop other children from bullying her child, thus her daughter turned against her. OP wanted her to stay with her and her stepfather to forget about her childhood traumas, but she had no idea her husband had begun to develop feelings for her daughter. He admitted himself that he was tempted by OP’s daughter rather than OP, which angered her, and she decided to have her daughter leave her home. Read the story and leave your comments below.
Source: Reddit
1. OP questions whether she was an A-hole for forcing her daughter to leave her home since her husband was attracted to her.
2. OP was married to her second husband four years ago and her 23-years-old daughter from her previous marriage stayed with them.
3. OP’s daughter was diagnosed with DID as a result of numerous traumas caused by her parents’ awful marriage, and she was bullied at school, for which OP was unable to take action because it would be considered adult harassment of a child.
4. OP’s daughter never took care of her hygiene due to depression but blamed OP for not helping her get rid of the bullying in school because of it.
5. OP wanted her daughter to live with her and her second husband to get healed from her childhood sufferings, but her daughter could not get along with him.
6. OP’s spouse began to distance himself from her, admitting that he was more attracted to her daughter than to her.
7. OP got upset and could not collect her thoughts while both her husband and her daughter were in the same house.
8. OP gave money to her daughter to stay in the hotel and asked her to use her college fund for expenses. OP’s ex started defaming OP on social media for abandoning her daughter.
9. OP was not abandoning her daughter but wanted time to figure out her situation.
Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.
10. Redditor suggests that OP should punish her spouse rather than her daughter by kicking him out of the house.
11. Yes, DID developed in her daughter due to some severe traumas.
12. Redditor thinks that her daughter’s mental condition got severe due to her mother.
13. Obviously! OP ignored her daughter’s complaints about being bullied by other students, which enhanced her traumatic condition.
14. Redditor calls OP selfish and delusional for not taking care of her daughter properly.
15. Redditor disagrees with OP’s decision to abandon her daughter for such an awful person.
16. Redditor wants OP’s husband out of the house.
17. Redditor believes that the OP should kick her spouse out of the house rather than sending her sick daughter away.
18. Indeed! He deserves this.
19. OP should protect her daughter, who was suffering from trauma because of her mother.
20. Redditor criticizes OP for leaving her own daughter for the man like him.
OP should not leave her daughter in this condition, as she has already suffered a lot at her young age. How can OP trust her husband after he admitted his emotions for another person instead of her? OP should leave that man, as he is not trustworthy after this incident, and stay with her daughter to resolve her issues with love and care. OP wanted to save her marriage, but relationships cannot last while being cheated on by a partner. What is your opinion about it? Share your thoughts in the comment section, and stay tuned to Wholesomeness for more stories.
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