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Wife Asks If She’s Wrong For Calling Her Husband Incel For Trying To Be An Alpha Male

  • By Malaika
  • 3 months ago
  • 5 minutes read
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Incels existed before the invention of the Internet.

Incels, or “involuntary celibates,” existed long before the Internet. This subculture of men who feel rejected by women and society has its origins in offline communities and social interactions. While the word as a whole is relatively new, incels have always blamed women for everything. Rather than focusing on their own shortcomings or working on themselves, they expect women to pay attention to them as if they are entitled to it.

This entitlement and bitterness towards women have manifested themselves in a variety of ways throughout history, including in misogynistic literature and violent acts. The rise of the Internet has simply provided a platform for individuals to connect and spread their harmful beliefs. Surprisingly, no one becomes an incel overnight, and it all begins with small steps. That is why it is critical to pay attention if someone close to you begins to exhibit the types of behaviour described in the following example.

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Relationships require a lot of compromise on the part of both parties.

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Calling your partner names is never a good way to communicate.

Having different opinions is okay, but can a relationship work when the basic ideology is so different?

Apparently, OP’s husband has always been conservative and was a fan of an influencer who called every guy a simp.

He was one of those influencers who looked at images of couples and arbitrarily pointed out how the guy was leaning towards the woman, which made him submissive.

OP talked to her husband about his being a fan of this influencer, but he assured her that it was only a joke, so she let it go.

However, things took a turn when she noticed that he would never lean in when they took a picture together, and this irritated her quite a lot.

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She didn’t want to make a big deal out of this, so she didn’t say anything until Christmas when her husband wanted a picture of them together.

She finally talked to him about it and asked him whether she could take a picture without having to lean into him.

The reason that the husband didn’t want to do this was because it would make him look like a simp and the answer surprised OP.

This is when OP blew up and called her husband an incel for prioritising a stranger’s opinion on the Internet over his own wife.

She did apologise later on but he hasn’t forgiven her and she doesn’t know what to do at this point.

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As someone who spends a lot of time on the internet, I’ve seen videos of random men on the internet talking about how celebrity couples aren’t good because the guy is leaning in towards the woman or something ridiculous like that. To be honest, I always thought it was hilarious and couldn’t understand how anyone could take it seriously, but it appears that many people adhere to this type of ideology. After all, so many people followed Andrew Tate and others like him for a reason, rather than treating everyone with equal respect and treating everyone as human beings, regardless of gender.

If somebody said that to me, I would leave them right there and then.

He is truly a simp for the influencer.

What is so wrong about caring for your partner anyway?

I am sure this isn’t the only thing where the husband employs alpha male ideology.

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This is only going to get worse unless he learns a lesson.

I am not even surprised, as I have seen women who are also big fans of this behaviour.

How is it okay to demean your partner?

Normal people don’t care about stuff like this.

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What are your thoughts on how the husband behaved? Do you believe the OP overdramatized the situation and could have handled it better? What would you do if you were in this situation? Let us know in the comments section below, and don’t forget to share this story with your friends so they can add their thoughts as well.

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