Redditor Asks If They Are Wrong For Humiliating Their Mom In Public

OP is a 24-year-old with a 17-year-old half-brother, Ethan. On their mother’s birthday, Ethan was struggling to soothe a crying newborn half-sibling. OP found him overwhelmed, with diapers and formula scattered. She calmed them down and later confronted their mom for relying too heavily on Ethan to care for their half-siblings. At a party, OP criticized her mom for dumping responsibilities on Ethan, leading to an awkward moment. Her mom later called, saying she respected OP’s opinion but was embarrassed in front of friends and coworkers. Ethan’s situation bothers OP, and she wonders if she’s the jerk (AITA) for bringing up the issue publicly.

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Curious about sharing, OP is 24f with half-brother Ethan, 17. Mom remarried and has 2 kids. OP bonds with her dad’s family and rarely see her mom due to differences. Text with Ethan.

It was mom’s recent birthday when OP visited, she noticed Ethan and her newborn sibling missing. Mom asked Ethan to watch the baby while she took a break. They were in the large backyard.

Later, OP found Ethan in his room, the baby inconsolable. He was upset, she tried everything and said mom makes him care for the baby. He’s done this with the other half-sibling too.

OP was upset. Ethan always cares for half-siblings more than parents. OP confronted mom, told her it’s unfair to rely on him. It was an awkward confrontation, but she highlighted the issue.

Mom called, and acknowledged OP’s view but criticized public confrontation. Her boss and coworkers were present. OP can’t stop thinking about Ethan and asks the Reddit community Am I the as*hole (AITA)?

This story shows how it’s important for families to share responsibilities fairly, especially taking care of younger siblings. It’s not right to expect one family member, like Ethan, to do a lot more than they should. This can make them feel sad and stressed. The story suggests that it’s better to talk about these things privately and nicely instead of in front of others. It’s also a reminder for parents to think about what’s best for their kids and not give them too much to do.