Home Owner Builds Fence To Keep Out Rude Neighbor Kids Who Make Inappropriate Comments When She’s Using Her Pool
It’s surprising how some neighbors think they own part of your property, especially if you have a pool. This attitude can create uncomfortable and tense situations, as they ignore the clear boundaries of your space. Neighbors might use your amenities like they’re community property, without thinking about your rights as the homeowner. This often leads to strained relationships and makes it necessary to set clear rules to keep things peaceful. It highlights the need to understand and respect property rights, especially in neighborhoods where such misunderstandings can happen easily.
One Redditor faced a similar issue with the neighbors next door after inheriting her dream property. Initially, the couple next door, who have three kids, seemed friendly. The mother mentioned that the previous owners let her kids use the pool whenever they wanted. Valuing her privacy, OP reluctantly agreed to let the kids use the pool occasionally, provided they didn’t ab*se the privilege. However, the kids soon started showing up almost every time OP was in the pool. Fed up, OP decided to put up a fence. The mother confronted her, upset that the fence would prevent her kids from accessing the pool. OP reminded her that she had agreed to the arrangement under certain conditions, which were violated.
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1. OP contemplates if she is wrong for constructing a fence to keep her neighbors out of her pool.
2. Earlier this year, OP received an inheritance from a family member. It allowed her to move out and get her own place after years of living paycheck to paycheck.
3. She describes her new home as her dream place, one she could never have afforded without an inheritance or a relentless climb up the corporate ladder. The highlight for her is the pool.
4. The trouble began with her neighbors, Mark and Kaylie, who have three children. Initially, they were quite friendly, particularly Kaylie.
5. A week after OP moved in, Kaylie brought over cookies and mentioned that the previous owners, an older couple, allowed her kids to use the pool freely because they disliked the quiet. However, OP values her privacy and quiet as an introvert.
6. Throughout the summer, the children repeatedly ab*sed the privilege. Whenever OP went swimming the children would come to join OP in the pool.
7. They even brought friends over a few times, and on several occasions, OP had to ask them to leave because she was with adults engaging in activities like drinking.
8. Now, OP’s putting up a fence for two reasons: she’s getting a dog and she wants her privacy.
9. Kaylie expressed concern that the fence would make it harder for her kids to come over and play, to which OP replied affirmatively. OP reminded Kaylie that she had initially allowed pool use as long as the privilege wasn’t abused, but since it was, her kids could now only come over if invited.
10. Kaylie said her kids would be crushed and saw her as a big sister. OP responded she’s not their babysitter and values her privacy.
Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this.
11. OP should consider making the fence even higher than originally planned.
12. Raise that fence for extra privacy, and consider installing cameras to keep an eye on those kids attempting unauthorized visits.
13. It’s surprising OP’s homeowners insurance didn’t mandate a fence. Don’t feel guilty—fences should be standard in every neighborhood for privacy and security.
14. “Our pool?…….I don’t see you paying the bills!”
15. Addressing her sons’ inappropriate comments and behavior sooner would have been wise. Allowing that kind of har*ssment wasn’t fair to you or your guests.
16. It’s your house and property, not a community pool……..You shouldn’t have to sacrifice your comfort for someone else’s fun!!
17. She claiming “our pool” should confirm you’re doing the right thing.
18. A fence could boost your property’s worth!
19. If an accident happened, you’d be liable since it’s your property.
20. Setting boundaries much earlier would have been wise.
Ultimately, it’s the OP’s decision to put up a fence, and she shouldn’t let her neighbors manipulate her. Given their clear boundary oversteps and her plans to get a dog, her needs should take priority over her entitled neighbors’ demands. Despite some thinking the fence is excessive, OP feels she has every right to her privacy and stands firm in her decision. Do share your thoughts on the story in the comments section below.
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