As usual, before proceeding, we would like to welcome our old and new readers and would like to give an overview to our new readers what the AITA thread is about. AITA (Am I The A-Hole) is a famous Reddit’s thread where an individual would seek suggestions and approvals of other people whenever he/she is caught into a situation where it’s difficult for him/her to judge whether what he/she did was right or wrong. The best thing about this thread is a majority of people would stay neutral while giving a suggestion which the individual can act upon, depending on his choice, of course!
Some matters are hilarious, some are weird while some are really serious. In today’s episode of AITA, a guy was caught into a very tricky situation where he was unsure what to do and decided to seek for people’s suggestions. The overview of the story is, the guy’s sister recently revealed her identity to her immediate family and accepted that she’s a trans. However, the guy’s wedding is coming up and he doesn’t want his extended family to know about this as they would bully or disrespect his sister and also, a lot of people wouldn’t support it. So, he told her sister to dress up as a man and she got upset and now he’s unsure whether it was the right move or not.
A very tricky situation, indeed. Now, let’s go and check out the original post and then we can see how did people respond to it. Keep scrolling to let the story begin!
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Well, it’s very brave of her to accept it in front of everyone. It’s certainly not easy!
Imagine how excited she would be!
This problem lies all across the universe. People just wouldn’t stop poking their nose into the matters of others!
But the situation is also understandable if we look at it, neutrally.
That’s just sad. Really really sad. Why is it that everytime we have to care about what the world thinks. And why does the world has to interfere into people’s lives. Finally when she decided to open about her sexuality to her family, this is what happens. Her brother has a legitimate point to some extent but that certainly won’t ruin his wedding. People talk, they forget. You cannot hurt your sister like that. He should be more considerate about it rather than caring about what people might talk or say.
It’s understandable if the OP is stressing about his sister being harrassed or bullied, but what good brother are you if you can’t stand up for your own sister? Why welcome such guests at the wedding where his own sister has to hide her sexuality. Eventually, it’s going to open up either ways and people will still talk the same. However, let’s go ahead and see what people had to say about this and what were their opinions or reactions to this post. Scroll down to see.
Oh well, that was sort of a tricky situation indeed but also, this is the time where you decide what do you care about. Is it your family over people or is it going to be people over family. Everyone has their own perspective and it’s only a matter of choice. Lastly, we would like to know your opinion on this as well. Feel free to write it down into the comments section below!