Girlfriend Embarrasses Boyfriend By Rejecting A Public Proposal Because He Created A Big Scene In Public
It has been observed multiple times in relationships where one spouse wishes to control the other. People strive to influence their partners for selfish reasons, and while they occasionally succeed, these partnerships are short-lived. A long-lasting relationship is one in which both parties show equal respect for each other’s feelings and make all decisions together.
OP was a college student of psychology who, at the age of 20, was dating a 24-year-old boy for ten months. According to OP, he treated him well and brought flowers and chocolates for her every weekend, although he knew that OP did not like chocolates. OP’s boyfriend wanted to marry him, but for OP, it was too soon to decide, and she informed him that she hates public proposals that force the person to say yes. OP’s boyfriend became impassioned and asked OP to come for dinner while calling her in her class. OP was annoyed, but she had to accept his invitation. During dinner, her boyfriend went to the bathroom, and OP assumed that he left her alone to pay the bill. As she opened the bill tab, she realized that it had a request to marry him. People started recording, and OP’s boyfriend went on his knees with a ring to propose to her. OP was so shocked that she said no and ran away from the place. Read the entire story and share your views in the comment section below.
Source: Reddit
1. OP wonders if she was wrong to turn down his boyfriend’s marriage proposal and humiliate him in public.
2. OP was a college student of psychology and had been dating her boyfriend for ten months.
3. OP’s boyfriend treated her well, except when he brought chocolates for her after knowing that she hated them.
4. After nine months of dating, OP’s boyfriend suggested marriage, but OP needed time to think about it and did not want a public proposal that would force her to say yes.
5. OP’s boyfriend called her in class, which was not permitted, so after class, she called him back to scold him for disrupting her during the lecture, but he instead invited her for dinner.
6. OP’s boyfriend stated that OP should not get mad for the call and accept her dinner invitation since no one would treat her like him.
7. OP went with him to dinner, where he left her alone to go to the bathroom, and she thought that he left her to pay the bill, but she noted that everyone was looking at her and started recording when the waiter came with the bill toward her.
8. After OP had seen the bill tab on which he was asking her to marry him, OP’s boyfriend got down on one knee and proposed to her. After responding negatively, OP left.
9. OP was forced by her boyfriend to accept his marriage proposal in public after nine months of dating, which OP rejected and left him.
Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.
10. Redditor thinks that OP’s boyfriend was controlling and manipulating her, which was unacceptable.
11. Redditor praised OP for not accepting the proposal in public pressure.
12. Redditor disapproves of his dominating attitude toward her.
13. Yes, their relationship would be like this.
14. Indeed! her boyfriend was only thinking about his own desires.
15. Redditor is glad that OP did not say yes under pressure.
16. According to Redditor, OP’s boyfriend organized his proposal event, utilizing people around him so that OP would be unable to reject him.
17. Redditor advises OP to stop contacting him.
18. Yes, OP’s boyfriend had major red flags.
19. According to Redditor, it is not a good sign for the future to disregard a partner’s desires.
20. Redditor supports OP in making any decision regarding her relationship.
OP’s boyfriend ought to think before coercing her into accepting his proposal—something she had previously forbidden him from doing. She opposed a public proposal that would compel people to say yes under pressure. OP claims that her partner got her items that he knew she wouldn’t like. This indicates that he either didn’t care to take OP’s likes and dislikes into account or he intended to impose his decision on her. Many people get duped by public pressure, but OP was brave enough to reject the proposal even in the presence of spectators. When his strategy failed, OP’s boyfriend became irate and cut off communication with her. What should the OP do next, in your opinion? Share your thoughts with Defused, and stay connected to learn more.
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