Eldest Kid Practically Becomes Second Parent To Younger Spoiled Sister, Finally Snaps And Tells Her To Grow Up
It is common for the youngest children to remain young in their parents’ eyes. They spoil them so much that they never mature in life. Their behaviour has an impact on their elder siblings, who must put up with all of their tantrums for their parents’ sakes.
OP had to look after her 16-year-old sister at the age of 18 because their parents thought that her sister was too young to look after herself. OP had a boyfriend, and she had to go out frequently to spend time with him and couldn’t babysit her sister all the time. Once, OP and her boyfriend planned to spend time at his house, and OP had to take her sister with her since her parents were busy. At his house, her sister casually sat on his couch and on the TV without asking for permission, which upset OP. She went to her boyfriend’s room with him, leaving her behind. After some time, she barged into his room without knocking when they were cuddling and ordered OP to make food for her. OP was so annoyed that she refused to give food to her, on which she started crying and kicking the walls like a toddler. OP yelled at her to behave like a grown girl and called her a spoiled child. Read the entire story to learn about what happened next, and share your thoughts in the comment section below.
Source: Reddit
1. OP wonders if she was wrong to tell her sister to act like a grown-up girl instead of a spoiled one.
2. At the age of 18, OP had to look after her 16-years-old sister. OP had a boyfriend, and they wanted to spend time together, so OP took her sister with her to his house.
3. OP’s sister barged into her boyfriend’s room to ask for food when they were cuddling together. OP refused to make food for her in anger, but she started crying and kicking the walls.
4. OP yelled at her for behaving like a child, but she started crying more and called their parents, who got upset with OP.
5. OP explained that her sister was not disabled, but her parents babysat her always, and her sister’s behavior in her boyfriend’s home was not acceptable.
Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.
6. Yes, it is very strange that OP had to watch a sister two years younger than her and not a small child.
7. Indeed! Getting a call from her parents on such issues is absurd.
8. Redditor wonders why a 16-year-old girl cannot stay alone at home.
9. Redditor supports OP’s sister because she had to sit silently for hours in OP’s boyfriend’s house, which was impossible.
10. Redditor wants to know the reason behind her sister’s attitude.
11. According to OP, her sister had no disabilities but got spoiled because of her parents’ pampering.
12. Indeed! She is 16 not 6.
13. Yes, OP needs to talk to her parents in this issue.
14. Redditor believes that OP’s sister should be looking after herself unless she is disabled.
15. According to Redditor, OP’s sister should not be forced to stay at a place where she is not allowed to do anything of her own choice.
16. At the age of 16, Redditor was doing after-school jobs and driving herself.
17. Redditor disapproves of OP behavior since she is not a child anymore.
18. Yes, no one needs babysitting at age 16.
19. Redditor was allowed to stay alone at the age of 10; why not OP’s sister at age 16?
20. Yes, OP’s sister needs to grow up since she is older enough to take care of herself.
OP should speak with her parents about her sister’s behavior with others, since she is now old enough to behave maturely. It was undoubtedly their parents’ fault for spoiling their daughter so excessively that she never grew up. They should recognize that she needs to start her actual life soon, and if they keep treating her like this, she will never succeed. What is your perspective on this situation? Please leave your thoughts in the comments below, and stay tuned to Wholesomeness for more stories.
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