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Redditor Asks If They’re Wrong For Confronting Their Neighbors About Their Dog’s Constant Barking

There are numerous obligations that come with pet ownership. It goes beyond just taking care of the pet’s need. You must invest a lot of time in educating it in addition to providing it with a safe, dry, and warm place to sleep, food, and water, as well as the necessary veterinary care. Dogs are fantastic. They are, indeed. They are the most devoted, best friends you could ever have, and they won’t ever leave your side. However, they require instruction. similar to how children are taught about right and wrong. There are instances when the love they have for their owners can be problematic. They specifically dislike it when the person they love the most leaves them by themselves.

Everyone dislikes that, but dogs have certain needs. When left alone, especially those suffering separation anxiety, they frequently overreact. And when dogs are left alone, they bark, howl, and wreck furniture. The first two impact other people, but the third exclusively harms its owners. It can be very annoying for the neighbors to have to put up with the howling and barking coming from the apartment or home next door. A user with the username u/ohhgrrl on Reddit posted about one of these issues. “WIBTA for requesting that my new neighbor put an end to their dog’s constant barking during the day? ”

She acknowledges that she is abrasive and that a personal encounter with her would probably end disastrously, permanently tainting any potential friendship she might have with her neighbors. They have all recently moved into the new building. Nobody knows anyone else. She is now considering the best course of action. Read the complete account below:

1. Here is the crux of the story

 

OP asks:
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2. She recently relocated to a brand-new condominium complex. Although she is unfamiliar with all of her neighbors, this is true of all of them as well. All of them just moved in.

 

She just moved in into a brand new condo building. She doesn't know any of the neighbors, but the same can be said for any of them. They all just moved in
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3. The dog of one of the neighbors barks nonstop throughout the day. OP wants to let them know but hesitates for fear of upsetting her neighbors.

 

One of the neighbors has a dog that is constantly barking during the day. OP wants to notify them, but is afraid of messing up relations with her neighbors
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4. She is aware of her abrasive nature and doesn’t want to cause a fight.
She is aware that she is abrasive person and doesn't want to get into conflict
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Now that you have read the story. it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say on this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article too.

5. Redditors agree:

 

Redditors agree:
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6. First involving outside parties would make OP an AH, so she doesn’t want to do that.

 

OP doesn't want to involve third parties first, because she is sure that would make her an AH
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7. A note might do the trick

 

A note might do the trick
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8. Some Redditors advised OP to inform her super about them.

 

Some Redditors suggested OP reports them to her super
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9. Others emphasised the significance of using appropriate language and formatting for the note. It is easily misinterpreted

 

Others emphasized the importance of proper formatting and words for the note. It can easily be misunderstood
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10. OP should have her friends read the note

 

OP should have her friends read the note
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11. OP also received some guidance from Redditors on how to calm the cats.

 

Redditors also gave OP some advice on how to calm the cats
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12. Definitely, the best strategy is kindness. Will OP, however, be able to succeed?

 

Kindness is the best approach, that's for sure. But will OP be able to pull it off?

Well, OP certainly has a problem here. But she might be too worried about it. For all we know, her neighbors might be great people and they might not even be aware of the problem. It is hard to know what our pets do while we are not home. Maybe they will start solving the problem once they become aware of it. It is great that OP is aware of the fact that she is an abrasive person because it means she can improve her people skills. So many people out there act rudely and think it is okay.

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