To cats. I mean I am not saying a human should try catnip because I am not sure how that ‘experiment’ would turn out. However, catnip is mostly harmless to cats if they are not allergic or don’t go batsh*t crazy when using this substance. Although that may be true, that doesn’t mean a mother can give catnip to her son’s cat without his explicit permission.
Giving it accidentally and realizing he doesn’t like it after is a different thing but this mother knows that but still continues to give it each and every day. I am not saying this is as big a deal as many of the comments are making it out to be but lying is never a good idea in any sort of relationship and why go to so many lengths to hide this anyway?
Source: Reddit






This made me laugh my husband would totally threaten to rat me out too. I think it’s fairly harmless, but your son did say “no cat weed”. So, I’m going to go soft soft soft YTA.
I have no idea why people assume you’d be a terrible grandmother to kids. This is essentially equivalent to giving a kid a cookie or candy when mom and dad said no (barring the child from having health issues that would make that harmful).
Regardless I snickered at this post. Cat tax! We want to see the kitty! –Smeli_meli2






She just needs to tell him so he can make decisions based on that. It’s inevitable that the people caring for your kids or pets will do some things differently but you should know what those things are.
Like if someone’s giving them occasional treats, you wouldn’t be thrilled but you also probably wouldn’t stop letting them see them. If they plan on letting them run outside unsupervised or let them watch disturbing things, you need to find other arrangements.
In any case, you should be told. –Stellaaahhhh
Would you get angry at your parents for doing something similar? Comment down below and let us know.