Respect and trust are the most essential elements for a relationship to develop. A couple cannot last long in a relationship if one of them fails to give the other partner these two. While physical attraction initially draws people together, love eventually follows, and their relationship finally blossoms when they value each other’s feelings.
OP and her boyfriend were together for five years. OP’s boyfriend made videos while pranking friends and then uploaded them on social media. OP never allowed him to make her videos, but she sometimes helped him edit and record these videos. The problem appeared when OP went with her boyfriend and his friend to buy something and wore her jeans without her panties in a hurry since she was unable to find it while dressing. When they were walking in the hallway, her boyfriend and his friend grabbed the back pockets of her jeans and ripped her jeans instantly. OP got embarrassed by this humiliation, but her boyfriend started yelling at her instead of protecting her and gave her his sweater to cover her up. OP got so hurt that she broke up with him over his inappropriate behavior and left. Read the entire story to learn about OP’s situation and share your view in the comment section below.
Source: Reddit
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A true man always protects his partner and never does anything that is disrespectful to her. OP’s boyfriend played pranks on friends and filmed videos to get money, but that doesn’t mean he’ll let his friend rip off his girlfriend’s jeans in public without her permission. OP should end their relationship with him because of what he done after the incident. He yelled at OP for not wearing pants under jeans while he hid them himself to tease her and then forgot while heading outdoors. It was entirely his fault, not OP’s, yet he acted inappropriately, something OP would never forget in her life. What are your thoughts on OP’s decision to leave her boyfriend? Share your opinions with Defused, and stay tuned.