No matter how much we think that we are above it all and that we would be perfectly fine working with our friends and family, it never works out the way you expect it to. It is hard enough working with your prior friends since you never know when that is going to turn sour and thus make the work environment hostile. It is even harder to work with your spouse. Since you want the relationship at home to remain unaffected.
This is why it is paramount that we draw a line between professional and personal relationships. Some people, however, think they can have it all and thus end up with these sorts of problems. This guy thought it would be perfectly fine to hire his wife. But the wife let the power get to her head and thought she was somehow the boss of the place now and started berating an employee who made a mistake threatening to fire him which she can’t actually do.
Source: Reddit
This is where I feel I may be TA because while it is my business and I have worked for over 20 years to make it happen, she is still my wife and has intimate knowledge of my work and how it functions on a daily and even yearly basis. She’s been a part of it in some way for the past 10 years or so whether that’s random 1-day stints she fills in for one of the office workers, or me bouncing ideas off her to see what sticks.
I just honestly think she was on a power trip because while I used to do her job for the better part of 15+ years, it is an incredibly simple job that I didn’t want to hire anyone else for to save money. I hate to say it but I only hired her because she wanted a job that made her some extra cash and kept her hands busy, I didn’t actually need her for this position. –Honest_Doctor8039
Have you ever hired your friends or family? If so how did it pan out?