Guy Walks Out Of Blind Date When Friends Try To Set Him Up With A Girl He Has Rejected Multiple Times
Blind dating is a novel concept in modern culture for forming fresh relationships, and people use it to build new pairs among their mutual friends. Many times, these dates turn into an unexpected situation when the new pair that friends wish to set up does not get along with each other.
OP got stuck on a similar blind date when his best friend Joe and his girlfriend fixed him up with a female he had already rejected several times, and his best friend was aware of OP’s dislike for the girl. OP had lately broken up with her girlfriend, and Joe wanted him to begin a new relationship. He scheduled a double date with her girlfriend to ensure that he met the girl. OP went to Joe’s apartment, became angry when he saw Jane, whom he had never liked, and stormed out in rage. He met Jane at Joe’s girlfriend’s birthday party for the first time, and he despised her clingy and bothersome demeanor. Jane wanted to date him, but OP turned her down repeatedly. To understand the OP’s predicament and to leave comments on it in the section below, read the complete tale.
Source: Reddit
1. OP wonders if he was a-hole to walk out of the double date; his friend set up with her girlfriend, and the girl OP had already rejected.
2. OP wanted to get a judgment from the readers about his walking out of the date.
3. OP met the girl Jane through his friend’s girlfriend at her birthday party and didn’t like her because of her clingy and annoying nature.
4. OP had to meet her many times because of their mutual friend circle since she was his friend Joe’s girlfriend’s friend.
5. Jane invited OP on a date multiple times, but he told her that he was not interested.
6.OP’s friend wanted to fix him up with a friend of his girlfriend and arranged a double date, on which OP was reluctant to go.
7. OP agreed to meet her in Joe’s apartment and got upset to see Jane there as his date. OP left his friend’s place without saying a word.
8. OP got lots of bashing through texts about his behavior, which hurt Jane a lot. OP clarified that it was not his fault, as all the friends in his circle knew that OP had rejected her many times.
Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.
9. Redditor criticizes OP’s friend for arranging a date when he already knew that OP was not interested in her.
10. Yes, Jane deserves to be hurt since she already knew about OP’s intentions.
11. Redditor disapproves of Jane’s behavior in approaching a person who has rejected her multiple times.
12. Yes, it would be more creepy if the genders were reversed.
13. Indeed! OP would not remain friends with Joe anymore after his indecent act to upset him.
14. Redditor asks about OP’s next talk to his friend on the issue.
15. Obviously! They did wrong with OP and are now trying to manipulate him.
16. Redditor is giving a point of doubt to his friends, as OP was not clear in his rejection before.
17. Yes, real friends never do this type of stuff.
18. According to Redditor, OP was not responsible for her hurting feelings, as he had already rejected her three times and she had set herself up for the fourth time.
19. OP blamed his friend for what happened, claiming that as his best friend, he should not have screwed him so badly.
20. Redditor supports OP for leaving such oblivious people who called themselves his best friends but were actually opposite.
OP did the correct thing by leaving the place right away after seeing the person he didn’t like because if he stayed for too long, he would hurt her even more by rejecting her in front of her face. He expressed his disinterest for her politely several times because he did not want to destroy her self-esteem, but she had irritated him to the point where he could not restrain himself to disrespect her. OP was even more furious with his best friend because he knew everything about his dislike, despite the fact that he had planned a blind date. What is your opinion of the OP’s situation? Share your thoughts with Wholesomeness, and stay tuned for more.
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