Groom Tells His Gay Friend To “Man Up” Or Not Come To Wedding, He Declines Invitation

By Adina Tayyab
December 20, 2022
4 minutes read

While “joy” and “love” should be the main emotions brought up by weddings, this isn’t always the case.

Everything may be embarrassing and cause controversy, from the clothing code to the guest list. Naturally, the place where all of these disputes are resolved is online.

A man wondered if it was wrong for him to advise his friend to “man up” for his wedding celebration in a post that went viral on the AITA subreddit.

1. This is the bottom line of the story

2. OP and his friend have been together since childhood. Taylor is a nice guy

3. OP got into love with a woman who he is going to marry sooner

4. OP’s fiance had some different views about OP’s friend and had some reservations about him being invited to the wedding

5. These were the reasons why the finance did not want Taylor to come to the wedding

6. Anne wants a minimalist wedding as she suffers from Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

7. OP told Taylor about the dress code; he strictly needs to be in a black tuxedo

8. OP said some harsh words to Taylor which he thought were rude later

9. Taylor agreed to what OP said but the next days he declined the invitation and acted like everything was okay

10. OP is struggling with the situation as nobody understands what he’s going through. He asks the Reddit family, AITA?

Now that you have read the story. it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say on this. It is obvious that the OP is feeling bad about what he said and on the other side, Taylor did not react for no reason. But it might not be wrong to say that OP is the a-hole since he chose the wrong words. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article too.

11. I feel the same

12. Only if you choose your words wisely, things can be better

13. This is something that I feel too, what do you think about this?

14. This is thoughtful

15. Most of people think Op is the a-hole here

16. That’s sadly the truth

17. Exactly

18. OMG, this one went way too harsh

19. Seems about right, isn’t it?

20. Yeah right

It didn’t take long for the court of the internet to render its verdicts.

What is your take on the story? Do you agree with the behavior that OP showed? What would you do if you were in her situation? I think that no one is truly at fault. Since OP doesn’t seem to have been a kind or loving friend at all, I hope Taylor is able to move on without his relationship. Do share your opinion with us. If you want to read more such articles on our website, keep visiting us!

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